Why do guys ghost and play with girls even if they are attracted to them? (Page 2)

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Why would a guy use a girl for sex then ghost her if he is attracted enough to sleep with her. She’s also he’s type and he said “it’s a shame u live far away we could of seen each other more.” And the girl has a nice personality and caring towards him but they live too far from each other and he did mention how long distant never work however he still had sex with her and broke his promises into meeting her the next day When she came to visit him. he didn’t meet her because work came up he said he’ll see her after work but never got back and ghosted her all of a sudden. Also the day before all this after sex he was affectionate towards her by coming towards her and kissing her and goofing around then when he went home he hugged her goodbye and kept on saying he’ll see her tomorrow after work but didn’t and then she got upset and brought it up by texting him how upset he made her and feels like he’s just used her for sex he unfollows her. Why? Also before she went to go see him she made it clear how she doesn’t want to get used and he got offended saying “if u think I’m gonna use u I’d rather not have sex with you, I’m not the type to use or take advantage of anyone. But he literally did. I’m I going crazy or what?

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Guys who do this show that the "attraction" was merely sexual. All they wanted was the girl's body; they got it, and they've no further use for the girl.

monkeynutts · Answer

They are keeping the girl on the hook, mind games, it's kind of nasty, but psychologically it manipulates the girl, they want her to feel insecure.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

You're not going crazy he used you 😕, from that description

ct1243 · Answer

Scared of commitment is why a lot of men ghost women ; they don’t want to invest seriously

sexphobe · Answer

because human beings are shitty and half the time we don't even realise we're being assholes

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

That's really shitty of the guy, shame they spoil it for the next guy

clinteas · Answer

short answer, he's a jerk and is using you. Long answer, many reasons why he might be doing that, maybe he has another one or twelve on the side, maybe he's just a player.

An_Impulse · Answer

it doesn't sound like a guy at all.. like most girls do that but.. i dont think a guy ghosts a girl that can be available for sex... maybe he was busy?

nodnol32 · Answer

You're not going crazy. He didn't live upto his words. I don't know why he'd do that.

Anonymous · Answer

u played urself. You had sex with a guy you barely knew, this isn't rocket science.

JJLLove · Answer

Because people are players nowadays. That's it. None of it makes sense but it's too easy to play the fool and with feelings, get sex and keep your options open.

Anonymous · Answer

I could talk about why I did it to guys, I would assume it’s all the same reasons why guys do it to girls.

_Whatever · Answer

"Using someone for sex" does not exist. Stop saying it.

WhiteGlaze · Answer

They just do. Girls do the same shit. Its how dating culture has advanced in technology.

David_Kek · Answer

Can you summarize all that up into a single question please.

chapawapa · Answer

To get that cookie or to fill their time Or they have no clue what they doing

TallJess · Answer

It's a way to get into our head and make themselves look more interesting than what theya ctually are!

dudeinohio · Answer

He could simply believe the distance isn't worth it.

Sailor2001 · Answer

Those guys are just testing out their sexuality and collect experiences to boost their egos. They don't see you as a partner.

007kingifrit · Answer

you answered your own question, he is too far away. seeing you takes a lot of work he will probably find someone close r

Domaas · Answer

I would never treat a girl like that. If you have sex I would definitely see you soon again for some pleasure again. I would definitely pay your visit with vulva oral.

TeeSquare · Answer

Fear mostly. And was thinking with his wrong head.

Peggysue4u2 · Answer

Men are all pigs sorry I had to learn this hard way but he's just not that into you

joeldalton · Answer

If a guy ghosts you, he's not that attracted to you.

mich15smith · Answer

because they don't want a relationship and just want sex or whatever and will pretend to get it

thothahuramazda · Answer

What you are asking is how to win a losing game? Don't play.

Chris_u006 · Answer

Because some dudes are total dicks! Those dudes are not even worth be friend with.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Most likely guys who ghost are following the number 1 rule of dating. Don't stick your dick in crazy.

bulletbob555 · Answer

Just move on seems to be forbthe best. Quit trying to figure it out it just gives you false hope or makes you feel bad

Valnac · Answer

Some guys are trophy hunters and you just became his latest trophy. One and done. they like to hang out on Tinder!

larry69 · Answer

He is not right. Its not right to just use a woman for sex.

sp33d · Answer

Some women do that, too. The why is anybody's guess.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Siunds like trying to nake her feel its her chouce hd dint put her up to it

Iron_Man · Answer

Because they were never serious to begin with in the first place

Gedaria · Answer

No that's not my style, I would sooner stay friends. This ghosting thing I find annoying...

Worshop · Answer

Was.. it not possible to write this in the first person

Protein_mate · Answer

Because he's a p*ssy an doesn't admit his true intentions.

Younghungguy17 · Answer

Some people like playing head games or do it out of guilt after. There’s no good reason for ghosting.

JesseCraft07 · Answer

Simply they're just selfish and uncaring guys who only think about themselves. If they ghost you then block them, get rid of those scumbags

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why girls ghost and play with guys even if they are attracted to them

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Some people lie. Some people are manipulative.  He probably only wanted one thing

venomhbk1313 · Answer

Probably because guys like that don't want commitment

Dave31989 · Answer

Should watch the MTV show "Ghosted: Love Gone Missing"

Anonymous · Answer

They don't want a relationship they just want to get laid it doesn't matter if he's attracted to her because he'll go get laid by another woman he's attracted to anyway.

hellohruu · Answer

I wonder too. Probably an insecure ass

CoochieMonger · Answer

Over only ghosted one and that was because she was a waste of my time.

flashgrandad · Answer

No sweetheart, you were definitely used and if you continue see him he will continue to use you.

Cryme_Tyme · Answer

He just wanted to have sex with her den forget and do the same with other girls...

Vacaburra · Answer

For their egos. Poor self esteems. They need to gain points on their character fucking others.

gandolph3 · Answer

i don't know, maybe the same reason girls ghost guys, whatever that is

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

Ngl I've never ghosted a girl. Women be ghosting me for no reason

worldscolide · Answer

Because he is a shit head..

Agem123 · Answer

Well, he fucked you and basically got what he wanted. You should have taken the hint and not obsess over him.

Bluemax · Answer

Because they are "guys," and not men.

Tslav_ · Answer

Guys don’t ghost it just seems that way for women who are possessive

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Because those types of men are cads.

JosyJosy · Answer

They're not attracted enough and a waste of time

dominantdaddydominic · Answer

Stupidity and immaturity.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because those guys aren't monogamous.

Brownbored · Answer

Always bee ghosted, never did that crime to anyone

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