Why do guys ghost girls? instead of being straight up with them?

[Anonymous]

[HawkPerception]

For the same reason girls ghost guys.


Some of the common reasons for ghosting are:

1. Avoiding Confrontation: Some individuals may find it difficult to confront others with uncomfortable or difficult conversations. Ghosting allows them to avoid direct confrontation and the potential emotional discomfort associated with it.

2. Fear of Conflict: People who fear conflict or confrontation may choose to ghost as a way to sidestep difficult conversations. They might worry about how the other person will react and prefer to avoid any potential confrontation.

3. Lack of Interest or Connection: In some cases, a person may lose interest or feel that the connection is not strong enough to warrant a formal breakup or explanation. Ghosting can be seen as an easier way to disengage without having to explain one's feelings.

4. Communication Issues: Some individuals may struggle with effective communication and find it easier to withdraw rather than express their feelings or intentions. This can be particularly true in the age of digital communication, where face-to-face or voice conversations are less common.

5. Busy or Overwhelmed: Sometimes, people may become overwhelmed with their own lives, such as work, personal issues, or other commitments. In such cases, they might withdraw from social interactions, unintentionally ghosting others.

6. Avoiding Responsibility: Ghosting allows a person to avoid taking responsibility for the impact of their actions on the other person's feelings. By disappearing without explanation, they can sidestep accountability.

7. Online Dating Culture: The rise of online dating has brought with it a culture where some individuals feel less accountable for their actions. The ease of meeting new people virtually can lead to a lack of investment in any one connection, making ghosting more prevalent.

[Flatmanlewis]

Truthfully, because we have a generation of young men being raised by a generation which brainwashed them with a belief that they are special, no matter what. That their own needs and feeling come first. That having manners and respect for anybody, ANYTHING, is second to a twisted emotional hierarchy of ‘likes’, followers, instant gratification, and rational that teaches them to avoid all discomfort of critical self-awareness.


Real men aren’t raised this way, don’t behave this way, and don’t accept people (including their own sons) being this way.

[Avicenna]

People sometimes can't handle confrontation or giving bad news

[IronPhoenix]

Because most men in their past have tried to be straight with women and have learned that women don't handle rejection well at all.

So they just skip it.

Think about it. Women don't want anyone to be straight with them. When a woman asks " Does this dress make me look fat?" Do you really think she wants to hear the truth? 😅

No it's your fat ass that makes you look fat!

How well do you think that would work out?

She want to be validated and told what she wants to hear.

And rejection invalidates her and things get messy.

[MysticDevice]

I could ask girls the same. I've never been the ghoster, always the ghostee

Even when they match with you and start the conversation, and ask for your number. Chat for a few days. Then nothing.

If you're not interested then don't bother initiating in the first place.

[DextroShade]

Women don't take rejection well at all and will often act out in ways that range from making a scene in public to attacking the man or damaging his property. So it's much less risk and hassle for him to just skip past all that and go straight to the desired endpoint of not talking her again.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women don't tell men why when they reject them. It's just the way it works. You don't want to explain, sometimes you think it's easier for everyone, so do we think it's easier to ghost.

What does it really matter. You got your answer. A non answer is an answer.

[qtheoneandonly]

My experiences that women will get emotional. when they get emotional bad things can happen so it's easier just to skip the interaction and act like it never happened

[exitseven]

I always thought it was cowardly to do that but I did ghost somebody a long time ago.

[systemsareyo]

The amount of times women have ghosted me. I'd say it's a fair street. Ego's are humans

[Sparkie460]

Because they are cowards and can't look a woman in the face and be honest with her

[Anonymous]

If there’s a genuine reason why we don’t connect I will say something but if there is a huge elephant in the room and she ignorant about it I’m not going to try and convince her otherwise.