Unfortunately It happened from both sides sometime. but it depend on the person him self. For example the action - behavior - ext Some women - guys.( use the relationship like a gas station just to fuel their lust no more. it's fall on them when they first meet you have to read the Parson it's all about life experiences...
Well why do girls talk to or pay attention to guys that do such things? It's not the end of the world and not every guy is like that. Don't be obsessed about one guy who doesn't make you feel special. Move on and show them what they lost.
All I needed to read was the first sentence. Guys will use women who make themselves easy. They're easy prey. Plain and simple. Oddly enough, even manwhores consider women who are easy not to be relationship material. I don't understand why there's a double standard though, easy men belong with easy women.
This is what happens when you not only fall for a fuckboy, but also give him exaclty what he wants. Which is easy sex. No selfrespecting dude will invest in a girl who gives sex away so easily. Because she is EASY. This also applies for fuckboys.
Next time, how about you withhold sex until you're in a committed relationship? That's a very efficient way to weed out the fuckboys.
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He’s not a fuckboy! How do u know? And no i wasn’t easy it was mutual we had a strong sexual connection and long distance. We both sexted constantly and could t wait to get our hands on each other. He wouldn’t also waste a year talking to me
You can try rationalize things all you want. You asked for a third party perspective. And you are being given multiple by not only myself, but also others. We can speculate all we want. Sounds to me like you weren't as he pictured you to be in real life. Sometimes we can have an emotional connection with someone, but not a physical one. Whatever the case, he got into bed with you to justify the time he spent with you. Instead of getting angry at me, get angry at someone who used you. Like he couldn't have come with those excuses before he jumped in bed with you. But sure, keep convincing yourself he isn't a fuckboy.
He saw me twice. He wouldn’t sleep with me more than once if he wasn’t attracted or anything g. He was all over me before and after sex. Yeah maybe I shouldn’t of asked this question because all u are strangers and don’t know the ins and outs of the relationship. But I think he did this cause he hates long distance and couldn’t keep it up. Thanks for the opinion anyways I regret asking this now.
Well most of the guys are openly interested in nutting lol, so once he get a in between your legs and crack that nut, you will never see him again as long as he was driven by Lust. And what always fools most of the women is that, once a guy says "I love you" you end up thinking he wants to make you his life partner, yet he only wants to male you a sex dessert.
Who knows it happens to everybody. Try to not take it personally. Whoever is meant to be in your life will be in your life. just move on and go on to the next and don't easily give up sex that's why they do it.
Simply put guys will say anything to sleep with a chick. Your nothing to him and he said what he had to, to be able to sleep with you. Guys will sleep with any girl, girls usually only sleep with guys they like
Guys that do such a thing care more about themselves. This isn't every guy though luckily. Sucks that you dealt with that. Its simply a sign that he isn't the right guy
Smh. Its very simple. When you spread your legs easily, ALL MEN... ALL OF THEM, turn into a fuck boy an asshole or a loser. Nice guys, assholes, alphas, betas, all of them. A girl who spreads her legs easy is valueless to men except as a source of sex. So the guys will either dump you or just treat you like shit or just put in zero effort.
Everytime you spread your legs for someone who isn't committed to you, you've failed at relationships.
He may be talking to a few different girls at a time and can go from one to the next, because he doesn't have to settle down. If he lied to get sex, he's got some work to do on himself (to put it lightly). One should never need to lie for sex.
Mostly to up their count of women they slept with. It's probably a power trip, and you should be glad he didn't call you back. The only thing worse than spending one night with narcissist is spending a year with one
Some girls require too much attention, but are terrible at keeping a conversation going, which gets boring and then turns annoying if they’re needy but can’t be interesting lol
Guys who do this show that the "attraction" was merely sexual. All they wanted was the girl's body; they got it, and they've no further use for the girl.
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Unfortunately It happened from both sides sometime. but it depend on the person him self. For example the action - behavior - ext
Some women - guys.( use the relationship like a gas station just to fuel their lust no more. it's fall on them when they first meet you have to read the Parson it's all about life experiences...
Well why do girls talk to or pay attention to guys that do such things? It's not the end of the world and not every guy is like that. Don't be obsessed about one guy who doesn't make you feel special. Move on and show them what they lost.
All I needed to read was the first sentence. Guys will use women who make themselves easy. They're easy prey. Plain and simple. Oddly enough, even manwhores consider women who are easy not to be relationship material. I don't understand why there's a double standard though, easy men belong with easy women.
This is what happens when you not only fall for a fuckboy, but also give him exaclty what he wants. Which is easy sex. No selfrespecting dude will invest in a girl who gives sex away so easily. Because she is EASY. This also applies for fuckboys.
Next time, how about you withhold sex until you're in a committed relationship? That's a very efficient way to weed out the fuckboys.
He’s not a fuckboy! How do u know? And no i wasn’t easy it was mutual we had a strong sexual connection and long distance. We both sexted constantly and could t wait to get our hands on each other. He wouldn’t also waste a year talking to me
You can try rationalize things all you want. You asked for a third party perspective. And you are being given multiple by not only myself, but also others. We can speculate all we want. Sounds to me like you weren't as he pictured you to be in real life. Sometimes we can have an emotional connection with someone, but not a physical one. Whatever the case, he got into bed with you to justify the time he spent with you. Instead of getting angry at me, get angry at someone who used you. Like he couldn't have come with those excuses before he jumped in bed with you. But sure, keep convincing yourself he isn't a fuckboy.
He saw me twice. He wouldn’t sleep with me more than once if he wasn’t attracted or anything g. He was all over me before and after sex. Yeah maybe I shouldn’t of asked this question because all u are strangers and don’t know the ins and outs of the relationship. But I think he did this cause he hates long distance and couldn’t keep it up. Thanks for the opinion anyways I regret asking this now.
Your case was my own exact situation
Well most of the guys are openly interested in nutting lol, so once he get a in between your legs and crack that nut, you will never see him again as long as he was driven by Lust.
And what always fools most of the women is that, once a guy says "I love you" you end up thinking he wants to make you his life partner, yet he only wants to male you a sex dessert.
Who knows it happens to everybody. Try to not take it personally. Whoever is meant to be in your life will be in your life. just move on and go on to the next and don't easily give up sex that's why they do it.
Simply put guys will say anything to sleep with a chick. Your nothing to him and he said what he had to, to be able to sleep with you. Guys will sleep with any girl, girls usually only sleep with guys they like
Guys that do such a thing care more about themselves. This isn't every guy though luckily. Sucks that you dealt with that. Its simply a sign that he isn't the right guy
Wait. He said long distance will never work but you still had sex with him when you wanted a Serious relationship. Why 😕
Smh. Its very simple. When you spread your legs easily, ALL MEN... ALL OF THEM, turn into a fuck boy an asshole or a loser. Nice guys, assholes, alphas, betas, all of them. A girl who spreads her legs easy is valueless to men except as a source of sex. So the guys will either dump you or just treat you like shit or just put in zero effort.
Everytime you spread your legs for someone who isn't committed to you, you've failed at relationships.
Are you from Waco?
@Julietchicago you mean the world. Yes. Just look around you. Its as simple as i just said.
No, you're def cray... you must be from a religious occult
@Julietchicago nope. This explains all fuck boys. Did you ever meet a fuck boy? If so you must be in the same cult as me.
Everyone downvoted you clown, even a guy did too
You literally just answered your own question in the description. Because he's using you for sex.
Anyone can say anything, actions over words
Your case was exacttly exactly the same thing I went through. It is like I am reading my own situation.
He may be talking to a few different girls at a time and can go from one to the next, because he doesn't have to settle down. If he lied to get sex, he's got some work to do on himself (to put it lightly). One should never need to lie for sex.
Mostly to up their count of women they slept with. It's probably a power trip, and you should be glad he didn't call you back.
The only thing worse than spending one night with narcissist is spending a year with one
This is all about personality. Not all men do. Even if it doesn't feel that way. Girls should be a little more careful about this.
I'm not sure exactly 🤔
It honestly would not make sense to do so unless they had other girl interests they were trying to balance along with you
You've been played honey. "Guys" don't, just YOUR guy. Get a new one.
He's a fuckboy who wants a high body count.
He won't commit because they live to far but he will act like he will to get laid.
Some girls require too much attention, but are terrible at keeping a conversation going, which gets boring and then turns annoying if they’re needy but can’t be interesting lol
Guys who do this show that the "attraction" was merely sexual. All they wanted was the girl's body; they got it, and they've no further use for the girl.