Guys, Guys would you date a girl who's lost weight (100 lbs) and has some loose skin on stomach, inner thighs and boobs are kind of saggy?

[Anonymous]

I've lost 100 pounds and with clothes i look normal, but i do have loose skin, its not too crazy, but i do have some and its really been bugging me because its like i was super insecure being fat so i did something about it, and now that I'm at a healthy weight i have a NEW insecurity and its my loose skin, and so now i worry that that no guy will date me because some parts of my body aren't tight, my inner thighs and around my private, the skin is a bit loose, and also my belly.

This girls thighs are a little more loose than mine but this is the CLOSEST i could find to how mines look (the pic on the left)

And my stomach is kind of like this, i was thinking about getting a tummy tuck to tighten things up

I know its not a turn on, but i wonder if its a deal breaker

No.

Sure.

Depends on severity. (Would you consider the pictures i showed severe?)

Updates

+1 y

I don't know why i wrote guys twice -_- ignore that lol

[akadatank44]

Ok what is your poll options for? You asked too questions. Is it a deal breaker and woukd you date a girl with it? Lol anyways my answer remains the same. Yes I'd date a girl who lost the weight and had saggy skin. Its not a deal breaker.

Congrats on the weightloss!😊 Definitely get the tummy tuck or skin tuck if you feel you'd be a bit more confident with it. But don't get it for us guys. Dont for yourself!

[Asker]

Yeah sorry, i regret putting the question at the end, the poll options is for the question in the title! Thank you! :)

[akadatank44]

Lol its ok! I was just making sure. Just voted and surprised how many people said no. No one is perfect. Honestly would rather be with an ex fat chick than a natural skinny chick. Shows she's determined and when she puts her mind to something to get done she does it. Attractive quality!
You are welcome!

[Asker]

I was kind of expecting it but its okay, i'll live. Thanks again you're sweet! :D

[akadatank44]

You're welcome and thank you!

[Curmudgeon]

You know, all those people out there who condemn cosmetic surgery, think again. There ARE many instances where getting excess skin lifted, tucked or pulled can be very beneficial. Like here, for instance.

Asker, is this post bariatric surgery? Yes or no, congrats to you for your self-improvement journey and best wishes.

[Asker]

Yeah i agree :) and no, i didn't have bariatric surgery, it definitely had crossed my mind, but i didn't want to do anything too drastic, i just went old school, though i think bariatric surgery is certainly a good option too! but anyway thank you! :)

[JustRollTheDice]

The pictures you showed aren't severe and we'll done on achieving your goal on losing so much weight that's really great that you persevered, and of you want to and It'll boost your self esteem go for the tummy tuck

[BetteDavis]

well done on the weight loss!!

[Asker]

Thank you! :)

[jazz77]

Hey Chill, you have done an amazing job. I wouldn't base my decision on her saggy skin, you are much more of a person than the body.
Your tremendous resolve is more attractive than many other fake criterians out there. If you are open, there is chemistry and I feel trust, the game is on!!

Best wishes, cheers!

[Anonymous]

you just inspired the heck outta of me, some people wish they were you girl ( 100 pounds? you re just amaizing ) by the way most people dont care about the skin but its fixable and it won't cost you too much

[Asker]

Thank you so much! :)

[TripleAce]

sure you can find a guy... but some may feel that if he is offering a fit toned body himself he might want that in return from her too... so it's a toss up... depends who you meet

But don't get disappointed if averagely fit guys prefer not to...

[pankaj007]

you are great dear that you lost that much. and dont give a damn. on others perspective. resos are beautiful. they dont need others appreciation

[Alpha714]

try some more exercises... u have come so far push ur self some more... make ur fear into effort

[JasonTodd3]

Hell yeah. I love those girls who work out. I'll definitely date her. It shows her hard work and dedication towards getting herself better. I love it.

[number1saladass]

you lost weight too fast that's why you have lose skin now.

[Anonymous]

I most definitely will..☝🏼depending on your attitude

[John_Doesnt]

Boobs are everything to me. She needs to have a perfect pair for me to date her.

[Lithium65]

it's not permanent, so no

[Asker]

what do you mean? the loose skins not permanent?

[Lithium65]

typically when people lose lots of weight they need to have the excess skin removed. that's an option... fixing personality issues... not nearly as easy

[CT_CD]

I would never date a girl who used to be fat no matter what she looks like. Gross

[Ben38]

if the woman is great, of course

[BrandonToTheD]

personally idc. Imperfections are sexy sometimes

[herrerafern98]

your amazing

[Asker]

thank you :)

[herrerafern98]

you welcome

[Music_Loving_Geek]

what lose skin?

[Anonymous]

only if she gets rid of this saggy body

[adipy_ABDHP-1371531Q]

Not a chance.