Search Results: red flags

What should I do when my boyfriend has money issues?

I'm running two months going to three months with him and lately he has become more confident for me to foot the bill. At first, it was just simple things like when i go to his house, i buy food for both of us and that's...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Why don’t men just leave the woman alone that they don’t like?

I’ve been talking to a guy for a few months. Things started out pretty good until he started to display red flags. The honeymoon and love bombing phase had finally come to an end and we went from getting along to him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Do you think the death penalty is a little extreme for Shaken Baby Syndome?

There's some guy in Texas who was found guilty of causing Shaken Baby Syndome 20 years ago and sentenced to death by execution. He was supposed to be executed today, but the judge granted him a temporary stay so he can...

KostasKouvalis

Master Age: 27

What does it mean if a guy calls you “wifey”?

TLDR: Why would a guy call his girlfriend wifey? My boyfriend always calls me wifey or wifey material when I’m cleaning or doing dishes. Or one time he asked if his friends could come over and I said “it’s your...

cayleerin

Xper 4 Age: 26

What are some red flags that your partner is too obsessive?

Ad_Quid_Orator

Guru Age: 36

Is it a red flag if someone is using travel mode on bumble to you?

In my opinion I take it as them not being as serious or looking for constant flings. I’m curious to know what other people think.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my friend being love bombed? How can I help/advise her? I dont want to influence her decisions but i’m getting so many red flags?

So my friend recently told me that she had a brief fling for a few months with this guy, and she ended up getting pregnant and deciding not to keep the baby as she didn’t want anything serious as she was going back to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Break up went from being mutual to being very toxic, how to I handle this now?

This all happened a few hours ago sadly. Been with my man for just little under a year. For the most part i was pretty happy but he was a very detached sort of person where as i enjoy love language quite a lot. About...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy only wants to hangout ONLY in his car for a date” is that a red flag. he told me he’s paranoid of his car being stolen but I think it’s more?

Do you think he was setting me up for a car hookup or something? He joked about getting car head and stuff but he knew I was a virgin but still. He works a job and he has to park his car before and he goes out to eat with...

jackieistired

Yoda Age: 24

If a guy makes a joke about sex trafficking you, is that a major red flag?

I’m an H cup and I have a big butt and small waist and I told him how this one guy made a comment and he told me I’m a “2 for 1 deal” and then when we were supposed to meet and he was supposed to pick me up at a parking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this a red flag?

So there's this guy , we've been texting for a while now. He asks me to send a selfie and after I do, he asks if iv done something different with my hair and after I tell him that it was just a slight change of style he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does this even mean? What’s going on here?

This guy talked to me for three months. We didn’t even meet either but anyways we talked at least trying to take things slow I guess I don't know he was kinda sweet talker in my opinion but anyways left me on read for two...

laurlaur101

Xper 5 Age: 23

Health & Fitness

What are some non-negotiable red flags that instantly turn you off?

My list: #1. Pilots #2. Follows red pill content #3. Owns an expensive sport car/cars #4. Rude to waitresses/waiters or anyone in the service industry. #5. Hates cats 😺

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it a red flag if a man posts his entire day on social?

I'm talking everywhere he goes during the day, he has a picture of himself, or the location on his IG stories.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

How to become less gullible and naive?

I know that i am a very gullible person. I am usually the only person in the room who doesn't notice red flags. i always see other people making better choices than me. I feel all the time that i am in the dark because of...

Meropatrick

Explorer Age: 25

Education & Career

How do people end up in a toxic work environment?

Do you think it has anything to do with our upbringing and not seeing red flags during the interview?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My relationship almost feels like a daddy-daughter dynamic. will this be a problem later?

My fiancé has severe anxiety and is likely on the Autistic Spectrum. She has only been diagnosed with anxiety and takes medication for it. She also has a skin condition, but I notice she picks at her skin when she is...

ForevrLonely29

Xper 5 Age: 31

What does it mean if a guy you’re talking to keeps forgetting things you tell him?

For example, two weeks ago I told him I was going to dye my hair in two weeks and he asked me what color, I told him i was dying it blonde. A day after he asked me “Have you dyed your hair yet?” even though I told him I...

Anonymous

(25-29)