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I noticed over the years that women bring up height excessively more then men do. They not only talk about height in romantic scenarios but with platonic / professional interactions with men as well.

But every time women mentions a man being short, it’s almost always a negative connotation. Even if they like the short guy they will say something like “well he’s not very tall but he’s really cute or funny” or something.

But if a girl doesn’t something else about the short guy (his personality, looks, etc.) they virtually always bring up his height. Especially if they reject the man romantically.

But at the same time guys are less prone to say “well she’s really sweet & cool despite being overweight” out loud. We might be thinking that but we are not allowed by modern culture to say that because it’s “too mean” or something.

I am 6ft so fortunately height isn’t an issue for me. Like anyone I notice other people’s heights in most situations but I don’t immediately factor that into my judgment of people.

I once dated a girl who was 5’ 11’’. Despite my favorite female body type being cute, petite and athletic, her being tall and skinny was virtually a non issue for me. It did make things slightly more complex in bed (shorter girls are more versatile) But I didn’t really care that much. It was like factor number 37 out of 50 for me.

Also I don’t notice height at all in platonic and professional interactions with women or men. I don’t asume a really short guy or a really tall girl might have a negative personality right away. Some short guys do have napoleon syndromes. I’ve met a few short loud mouthed dbags. But overall that stereotype is often exaggerated.

I guess height judgment is evolutionary for females. But women need to understand that men have no control over their height whatsoever.

If you are more attracted to taller men then fine. But if you don’t like a shorter guy than don’t throw out his height as one of his “faults” like he had a choice in the matter.

So what do I mean by this. I mean any law in your country or society being passed will never be broken or even any cultural norm. So it doesn't' even have to be a law. Like lets say for example a cultural norm is to not date your cousin, but even if you have one person break that rule then you don't have that microform of utopia anymore.

Some say the eyes are the windows to the soul. I notice that leftists are often are just "out there" if you know what I mean. I cannot quite articulate what I mean. Their minds are just sort of in the clouds, maybe somewhat delusional, maybe even kind of spacey. You can see it it their eyes. They widen their eyes with almost these bulging eyeballs and they have sort of this odd absent gaze. Many of them, especially the women, favor these large-frame glasses. Does anyone else get what I mean? I have mainly seen this in the leftist women.

I will give you an example. My sister who is now estranged... the last time I saw her, she just kept this resting bitch face the entire time. Piss poor attitude. Just this off-putting "I hate you" look. And she communicated with this "yeahh..." kind of vibe.