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Obviously most of us should want our close friends to have a great personality, but what about looks?

Maybe you care about status, maybe you'll be jealous, maybe you'll feel tempted, maybe you really don't have any preference, but think about it a little. This is your good friend.

Personally, if I really think about it, one doesn't outweigh the other, but I'm wondering if you guys and girls have a stronger opinion than I do.

For educated voters two things can be true at once:

1) you can’t stand a presidential candidate’s behavior and optics

2) you vote for the candidate anyway because their policy is superior to the opposition

For me I always cared more about policy over personality when it comes to politics. I don’t vote to be entertained or to be given “empathy” or some other garbage by a bunch of empty promises and supposedly “feel good” speeches. I care about the politician can get shit done and do what is truly best for our country. He will never please everybody all the time with his decisions. However he is at least the lesser of two evils.

However it seems like for every thoughtful voter there are now 10+ “emotional” voters who vote with their feelings nowadays. They care more about the optics of a candidate vs. what actually matters: policy.

Anyway yes there are so called “maga supporters” out there. Lots of them. But for every maga supporter out there who blindly supports Trump no matter what there has to be twice as many people with TDS from my observations. If that wasn’t true than Biden wouldn’t of won 2020 with such a huge margin of popular votes.

I think leftist elites know this and this is why they carefully orchestrated the indictment and arrest of Trump at the behest of known leftist DA Alvin Bragg.

They are predicting it will make Trump blow out the republican primaries and gain the nomination. However in the general election they also know that droves of TDS voters will blindly choose Biden just because and only because he isn’t Trump (they barely pay any attention to policy).

Are you the type to like to people please?

Here are some signs that you might be a people pleaser if you aren't sure:

Agreeing with whoever is in front of you. Many of us learn how to politely listen to others as part of our social skills. That can veer into people-pleasing behavior if you constantly agree with people because you want to earn their admiration and not because you believe what you’re saying.

Apologizing for things that aren’t your fault. People pleasers often make themselves responsible for the emotional responses of others. If someone feels bad, you may blame yourself or fear that person thinks you’re the problem. It’s good to say you’re sorry if you’ve hurt someone, but there may be a deeper issue if you’re frequently apologizing for things you have no control over.

Not being able to say no. If you find it difficult to tell others no when they ask you for something, you may be a people pleaser. Many people pleasers prefer making up excuses later to get out of a commitment instead of saying no from the start. If you do follow through, you can regret not having the strength to stand up for yourself.

Changing your personality depending on who’s around you. People pleasers tend to shift their behavior and attitude to match that of the person or group. That can lead to you acting in ways that are out of character or participating in actions you disagree with just to fit in socially. People pleasers tend to do anything possible to avoid conflict, even if it means turning into an entirely different person.

Your worth depends on how others see you. People pleasers need validation from others to feel good about themselves. They can go to extremes to earn words of praise from others. The confidence of a people pleaser rises and falls based on how others perceive them.

Does any of this resonate with you? feels like things you do?