If a girl’s best features went downhill, how would you go about endings things with her?

[Anonymous]

You love her voice, personality, the way she carries herself. Her face is average but she has a good smile. Her hair and breasts were her best features if we’re being honest. However, she had to have surgery to remove something potentially cancerous and it left her breasts completely out of shape. They are no longer round unless wearing a bra. As for her hair, she had a bad stylist, all of her pretty long hair is completely ruined now. Its very very short and 90% chance it will not grow back. If you were still young and in your 20’s, wouldn’t you be honest about losing attraction to her and just move on?

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Imagine only the short top portion existed and no longer the long sides

[GreekLorrd]

I do not support or encourage hurting someone's feelings or breaking up with them solely based on their physical appearance. Relationships should be based on mutual respect, love, and genuine connection, and physical attraction is just one aspect of a relationship.

It is important to remember that physical appearance can change over time due to various factors, including health issues, accidents, aging, or other reasons. While physical attraction is a significant aspect of a romantic relationship, it should not be the only determining factor.

If a person is genuinely in love with someone, they should be able to look beyond the physical appearance and focus on the person's inner qualities and personality. If a person feels that they have lost attraction to their partner, it is essential to communicate with them honestly and respectfully. It is crucial to consider the impact of the words used and the approach taken, as breaking up can be a painful experience for both parties involved.

Ultimately, it is important to remember that every person deserves respect, empathy, and kindness, and it is essential to treat others the way we would like to be treated.

[Asker]

Lets say for example if you and this girl were dating for a month but something happens to her and month two her hair and breasts are like the above? You for example are young and still in your 20s. You have your whole life ahead of you. wouldn't you leave?

[GreekLorrd]

However, physical appearance is just one aspect of a person, and relationships should be based on more than just looks. It is important to consider other factors such as personality, shared interests, and emotional connection. Ultimately, the decision to end a relationship is a personal one and should be based on individual circumstances and values.

[Asker]

I know but im asking you personally. You wouldn't be deep in love in a month or less. So in asking if this was your girl above, no matter how good her personality and stuff, you’re young. Wouldn’t you want to be set free

[GreekLorrd]

You know, the body is not important at all. The soul and the heart are important. The body gets old, but the soul always stays there. That's why I think so.. I didn't fall in love with breasts or hair after all. Heart and mindset are more important.
P. s it's Subjective

[Asker]

Thank you

[GreekLorrd]

Life goes on.. Someone who sees you as an object does not deserve you. Every person is unique.
Breast is just a body part. Hair also grows back. But if you don't have a soul, you're no better than a tin. So don't let them judge you.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Sweetheart, no REAL man will ever leave a woman just because her body is changing.


Deep down they know they’re going to look like their grandparents someday and they will never use the changes we all face in life against you.

[Anonymous]

when are people going to understand that looks fade, personality is forever.

[Asker]

If you are with someone fresh off like not even a good month in, why wouldn't you leave

[Opinion Owner]

i guess i'm just not shallow -shrug-

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't see the point in leaving.

[Asker]

Why wouldn't you leave?