Do you prefer your close friend to have a good looking partner or bad looking partner or do you not care at all?

[Rab1901]

Obviously most of us should want our close friends to have a great personality, but what about looks?

Maybe you care about status, maybe you'll be jealous, maybe you'll feel tempted, maybe you really don't have any preference, but think about it a little. This is your good friend.

Personally, if I really think about it, one doesn't outweigh the other, but I'm wondering if you guys and girls have a stronger opinion than I do.

Good looking partner

Bad looking partner

No preference

[midnightmoon05]

Seriously? I don’t care about his look!!
I want my friend to be treated well by her partner/husband.
I have a girlfriend who’s husband who is very charismatic…cheated on her. I don’t like that.
another girlfriend. The guy never bother marrying her to give her the title she deserves even after giving him two babies.
so what if they look good…I would rather the guy treat them with love over look.

[sheenagwapa]

good lookinh but relationship is mire than looks... it's complicated it's the fudion of your personalities, fondness for each othet... it's complex to the point that i don't care much snymore of his looks

[AviatorTom]

Of course it's nice if his partner is good-looking. But it doesn't matter to me. It's his life, and his choice, who he dates, has sex with, falls in love with, marries

[dreamstar72]

If they are happy then I’m happy. I wouldn’t be friends with them if they was judging my wife.

[Pinay_ako]

That’s their choice. Who am I to judge who they want to love?

[TacosRAwesome]

No preference but I'm a bit happier for them if their partner is a snack... Like get it girl / bro.

[hiyamotherfers]

If they are loving toward my best friend I don't care. She is always there for me when I date idiots and helps me so I'm there for her. Plus looks don't make a good person

[Anemone978]

Why would I care... it ain't my man lol As long as they are happy its all good...

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Why would I care? It's not my business.. 🙄😂

[Boomchakalaca]

I never thought about it… and never will sounds so funny lol

[DizzyDesii]

Thats on them. I dont care who they date long as they dont come for whats mine

[htmndg183]

I don't care about what their partner looks like. I care about my friend being happy.

[Sasha0426]

Why would I care about what their partner looks like?

[Rab1901]

Maybe because you care about what's best for your friend

[Sasha0426]

What is this, high school? She’s an adult. Who she dates ain’t my business.

[Rab1901]

Oh ok I want my friends to only date the high quality girls but you're open to your opinion

[Sasha0426]

That’s not your decision to make. They’re grown adults and they’re not here to please you. If you have a problem of what their partner looks like and that’s ALL you care about, then maybe you shouldn’t be friends with them. You need to grow up.

[Sasha0426]

If they want to date someone attractive, that’s fine. That’s THEIR choice. They’re not going to do it just make you happy. They shouldn’t even care what you say or think.

[Sasha0426]

You know how much a pain in the ass it is to please others? It takes away your mental energy and makes you depressed. Is that what you’re trying to do to your friends? Because you sound really controlling and don’t give a shit about their happiness at all. All you care about is status.

[Rab1901]

Oh strong opinion. Thanks for your honesty

[Sasha0426]

Do you even care about your friends and their happiness? Or do you just want to be in charge all the time because it makes you feel empowered? You’re going to lose your friends and they’ll never be happy because they’re always trying to please you.

[Rab1901]

I care very much. I love them like family, and they're happy as well. I don't know where all these assumptions are coming from, but we're really incredibly close, and we always talk about how grateful we are for each other. Maybe it's a guy thing.

[Sasha0426]

If that’s how you feel, why care what their partner looks like? What does it matter to you?

[Rab1901]

It matters to them, and if it matters to them, it matters to me. I want them to have what matters to them.

[Ninania]

I care that their partners are good for them, but their looks don't matter to me.

[RockyHammock]

Who am I to dictate that though? I don't need eye candy to be happy

[LiamJHayden]

As long as the friends are happy, the attractiveness of their partners does not matter.

[electromagnetic]

I don’t care. They like what they like.

[cuteheart48]

I don’t really care though.

[Sparkie460]

I don't care what my friends partners look like