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Hello girls, I'm sorry but this will be a little bit long, I recently saw a girl I went to school with and we spoke about school and we had a little argument about something, I am talking about something that happened at high school, there was one girl at my class that we hated each other, we never spoke like regular classmates but always showing that didn't really like one another, and to be honest I always used to harass her even if just walking across her I would throw her a word like stupid or ugly or just bad morning instead of saying good morning... And don't get this wrong sometimes she did answer to speak back at me for the things I call her but we can say that she was pretty much harassed by me. So one day she was standing at the yard with her 3 friends (girls) and I passed next to her and called her stupid girl, so after 10 minutes when the break is over I went back to the class and almost everyone is there and just when I came in she came from behind me and pulled my pants and underwear down, exposing me and it took me like few seconds to realize what has just happened to me while I'm standing there with my pants and underwear to my ankles in front of everyone laughing so hard at me including her and she yelled "haha everyone look how tiny his penis is".

I pulled my pants back up and went home immediately and didn't come to school for 2 days. After that obviously I never mocked her or made fun of her again and never spoke to her again, even when she annoyed me sometimes (like calling me Mr. Small penis) but that was really few times not a lot... Some of the classmates (especially girls) thought she was right but exposing a man's genitals and penis could be the worst hit you could ever land on a man...

So girls, was she right?

I have this girl I’m seeing in another city, sorta long distance. Im supposed to take a vacation with her but my work schedule has been messed up lately. I’m only scheduled for shifts every 2 weeks and have to rely on people calling in sick to get hours in order to survive.

I have full shifts scheduled this week. So in order to take a vacation with her I’ll need to cancel and I most likely won’t get more shifts.

Recently this girl I’m seeing is behaving frigid and don’t want sex. She keeps making excuses every time I drive to her city. She gave me a heads up that there will no sex on this trip because she’s on her “period”. Should cancel my shifts and be super broke to go with her? Or should I just ditch her so I can work?

I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them weren't that awful, but we just weren't a good match. When I got some experience with rejecting a lady, I eventually decided that the best thing to do was to walk the lady back to her car, no good night kiss, no hug, tell her that I enjoyed meeting her, she seems like a nice lady, but I don't think we're a good match and I wished her good luck with her search. That stopped any expectations from developing and avoided the appearance of misleading her in any way. Maybe that isn't how she wanted to hear that message, but I thought it was better than taking the easy way out by texting or simply not calling her again.

If you were the lady on one of those first dates, how and when would you want that message conveyed to you? If you were the guy, how do you think that message should be delivered?

(Yes, I know that it isn't entirely up to me to decide whether to have a second date; a woman can reject me after the first date, and I have had that experience. I'm just asking about this from a guy's perspective. If you want to ask about how a girl should reject a guy, you can post your own question.)