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Recently I have been under an incredible amount of dispute with my friend. This is the situation, my friend let's call him Eric, has another friend, let's call him Yusuf. Well, basically what happens is that Yusuf is like retarded and he constantly annoys me, to what degree you may ask. Well, he often steals things from my bag or puts things inside, such as rocks. For instance, on time he even put sand in my water bottle filled with water. Every time I confront him, he just laughs and says it's not a big deal. Across these two years, every three weeks I would go up to him and tell him (in the face) to stop and it's not funny. However he just says it's funny for me and does it again. You may think y make a big deal, well imagine having that done to you for at least three times a week! He usually takes my stuff or puts things inside my bag whenever I have my back turned making it extremely annoying. He usually does this when I talk to my friend Eric who sees Yusuf take my stuff or litter my bag when I face him. However, he always refuses to tell me before Yusuf leaves or when it is too late. Considering that we have been friends since year 7, I have never been mad to him. However, the thing which happened on Monday completely made me not want to talk to him. Basically what happened was that I went to the toilet and put my bag right next to his bag and pleaded for him to keep it safe, he nodded and said ok. When I was going to the toilet, I saw Yusuf stalking me, at first I thought he was going to go but he just looked at me go in, I was busting so I couldn't really do anything, I did tell him to fuck off tho. As soon as I locked the door and took the shit, he just banged my door, and chucked my bag in the toilet next door. I saw it as he legit showed it to me. I felt betrayed and angry to a degree I don't know what to do with the two. I could easily bash Yusuf up but by doing that Eric would hate me. I don't know what to do, should I maintain the friendship or not

PLEASE READ: If she wasn't my sister, I'd have a hard time caring about her. That being said, she's far from the worst person, and she's usually super sweet, but she'll never ever give up an argument against me, and her final say is "I don't want to talk about this, so stop talking about it."

I'm a very curious person, but I'm not someone to make false claims, so I might ask something like, "Don't you think women are less decisive in general?" I am curious about what she thinks, but she'll get offended and say NO that's sexist even though I'm simply asking what she thinks. I actually think many women would even agree with me on this point by the way.

My sister is super set on equality too. I know what many of you are thinking, "of course" but the truth is men and women are not the same. We were actually walking together, and for those of you who don't know the sidewalk rule, it says that the man should be on the outside, so he can protect the woman in case of danger from cars. This is normally used in a romantic setting but I genuinely wanted to walk on the outside because I know I'm much stronger than she is, but guess what? I didn't because I thought she would be offended.

Do you agree or disagree with the sidewalk rule?

Do you think my sister would've been offended? For those of you who are thinking, "why don't you just ask?", it's because then we might get into an argument and I don't like negativity around me. I have to go to a birthday party soon.