Could it be he blocked me because he thought I wasn't interested?

[Anonymous]

This guy picked me up at a concert two weeks ago. We went to his car and made out hard, he asked if we should have sex but he didn't have protection so he said he'll use his hand (which hurt though, I suspect I have vaginism) so we just made out again. I was too drunk and got sick and he literally made out with me again after I threw up

Then I blacked out in his backseat. My last words were I'm going to sleep (I definitely didn't want to) In the morning he was all weird and depressed. I didn't ask what's wrong which is very unlike me because usually I have a hard helper complex. He laid on me once more though and gave me a hickey. I held his hand

Then he drove me to the station, didn't exchange anything. We have many mutuals so finding his Insta wasn't hard but I didn't follow. Later that day I checked again and I'm blocked

I talked to some of my friends and they said he was probably thinking I'm not into him, that he was scared I may think he had done something when I blacked out (?) None of these make sense though. Everyone tells me I should talk to him when I see him and act as if I don't know I'm blocked.

I don't even know if I'll see him anytime soon : ( I hope he'll be at this other concert this week as it's in his hometown but I know I shouldn't get my hopes up. I really liked him I can't believe I messed up like that, may just be he thought I'm strange. Help

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6 mo

People on here told me he just wanted a hookup and nothing else but like I've had other hookups and they all want to see me again. Also we live in the same area so?

[Oliverlogan263]

It's hard to say for certain why he blocked you without talking to him directly. A few thoughts:

- The situation after the concert sounds ambiguous and potentially uncomfortable for both of you, with you blacking out drunk. That alone could make someone uneasy and want distance.

- He may have feelings of guilt, worry he took advantage, or concern you could accuse him of something if you didn't remember parts of the evening clearly. Blocking is an immature way to avoid handling that, but it's understandable he'd want to avoid potential conflict or awkwardness.

- As your friends suggested, he could assume from your lack of follow up or engagement that you weren't that interested. Again, blocking is an overreaction, but people don't always respond rationally.

My advice would be not to put too much pressure on yourself to "fix" this or get answers right away. If you happen to run into him naturally, you could try a casual friendly greeting to gauge his reaction. But pursuing him aggressively could backfire or make him more uncomfortable. Focus on moving on for now unless he initiates contact. In the future, be careful about drunken encounters until you know someone better.

[Danny_dan92]

You’ll never really find out why

[Asker]

Why not? What if I ever see him shouldn't I talk to him?

[Danny_dan92]

I mean that’s the only way how