Am I ever going to find a woman?

[Anonymous]

I am 29 and never had a real girlfriend. I have had encounters with girls before, but they were brief and never evolved into anything. I only had sex one time 8 years ago when I lost my virginity. I haven't even kissed a woman since.

I seek a woman without a romantic past, meaning no previous boyfriends or romantic bonds with guys, especially from her youth. I only want me and a woman to be each other's first real relationship.

I found a 25 year old woman that had never had a boyfriend. She was my type and a lot like me. Sadly, she dropped me on snap but I have other ways to get a hold of her. I know where she goes to school too. I am thinking about reaching out to her again soon.

[OlderAndWiser]

"I. . . had sex one time 8 years ago when I lost my virginity. . .. I seek a woman without a romantic past, meaning no previous boyfriends or romantic bonds with guys, especially from her youth."

And she seeks a man who is still a virgin, so you will never find a woman who wants you and meets your qualifications, unless. . . unless you think she should comrpomise on wanting a virgin male because you are such a wonderful catch. But, then. . . why should she compromise if you aren't willing to compromise?

[_Maya_]

Wasted keystrokes on this guy. He doesn't get it.

[Asker]

@_Maya_
How do you guys know, tho? I never had a real girlfriend. Maybe she will be pleased to be my first girlfriend.

[OlderAndWiser]

@SouthernWhiteMan Maybe she had sex once but it was a ONS, not really a boyfriend. Why wouldn't you be pleased to be her first boyfriend?

[Asker]

If she had sex once with a stranger she never bonded with, I can overlook that. I never had an actual girlfriend. I expect her to never had a romantic bond either.

[OlderAndWiser]

And what percentage of the female population in your age range do you believe is single and meets your criteria?

[Asker]

I don't know. I would say it is dwindling for sure. I found a 25 year old that never had a boyfriend. Sadly, she dropped me. But I know how to find her if I want to.

[OlderAndWiser]

Dude, she dropped you. Don't you know what that means?

We aren't Neanderthals anymore. You don't just go to her cave and drag her back to your cave.

[Asker]

You don't think after I give it some time that I cannot reach out again?

[OlderAndWiser]

Of course you can reach out, but that doesn't mean she is going to be receptive. She may decide that you are a pathetic stalker and get an injunction against you.

[RespectfulGuy]

I know what you want. Your Description is very clear.

But I ask you to be principled to be happy.

Reason:

When you penis enters a vagina, you're no more a virgin, doesn't matter its a ONS or whatever.

Hence you lost your rights to demand a virgin.

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Best bargain: a girl who has body count of 1, doesn't matter ONS or whatever.

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Please learn to accept this fact because girls know what they want too. And virgins kept their virginity for a virgin guy, not you. (Unless you're very lucky for whatever reason.)

And yes, as someone else pointed out, stop whining already. Time to man up and look for non virgins.

[Asker]

I am not looking for a virgin. I am wanting a woman without a romantic past. There is a difference.

[RespectfulGuy]

Yes. There is. But that doesn't mean girls in general know the difference.

And girls around your age likely had crushes and "fallen in love" before.

Hence you're asking for almost the impossible, probably more difficult than finding a virgin.

Hence be realistic if you really want to settle down.

[catarecute]

maybe you will. but i am glad it won't be me.

[Asker]

But why?

[catarecute]

because you are entitled and think that there is a woman with no history or past in her late twenties who will be served to you on a silver plate. maybe there is but i don't like entitled men.

[Asker]

I am just hoping me and a woman can be each other's first real relationship.

[Asker]

Please give me a chance?

[catarecute]

i have slept with many men i way too used up for you.

[Asker]

Maybe so

[Anonymous]

Can you stop whining this once every 3 days on GAG?

[Asker]

It is VERY important to me.

[catarecute]

noone cares you are entitled why would a woman virgin or not want to date someone who is setting expectation for her without even meeting her, you are controlling and weird.

[Asker]

@catarecute
No, I am just wanting me and a woman to be each other's first real relationship. I never had a girlfriend, so that is a fair request. Me and a woman can no longer say we were close in our youth. This is the second best scenario.

[msc545]

You can't always get what you want.

[Opinion Owner]

@southernwhiteman
Yes you can have preferences, but don't be a cry baby when you have to face the consequences
More conditions you have, less the chance of getting a partner

[AmeerX]

Just go find a woman in Asia or Europe. Lots will love to be yours if you want a marriage otherwise don't be a time waster

[Anonymous]

lol stop trolling. You've been doing this for years now man

[jimmy2]

Get out and meet people you will know when get her number

[shades777]

the answer is no. now go find some porn

[Unit1]

No

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[msc545]

Since she dropped you, don't bother.

[Jmmmfi4]

PROBABLY NOT