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Personally I believe I'm equality of opportunity because you can't count on everyone working as hard as you to be given the same outcome. I was raised that you get what you work for.

I mean even when you raise your kids they won't have the same outcome in life because of the different choices they will make. One might choose a career that will eventually make them very wealthy and the other might choose another career that makes them happy but won't lead to riches.

Not everyone has the same start in life either. But the opportunity is always there to change your outcome depending on the choices you make and maybe a bit of luck. Also you can be more proud of yourself if you started on the bottom and worked your way to the top.

In my opinion, it's definitely a luck factor because no matter how much attractive, humble, caring, adventurous, fun, mature, responsible, honest or reliable you become, it's not guarenteed that you'll find someone who will love you and stay with you forever.

I've seen so many great marriage material people get abused, cheated on and taken advantage of.

What's the point to modify yourself for something that you don't even know will happen or not?

Isn't love about being loved for BEING THE REAL YOU?

You can work on those flaws that may hurt your bond.
But apart from it why do you need to change yourself?