Search Results: attraction

How can you distinguish between really loving them vs falling in love and being in love?

There is loving them, falling in love and being in love. The 3 of them seem similar but aren't. Obviously falling in love isn't the same as it's more about infatuation (similar to having a deep crush on someone but at...

SeleneSecret

Xper 6 Age: 19

Do you think that those men who complain that women want only 20% of men don’t go out enough and are undesirable because of their low confidence?

Irl you can see so many couples, and those men are not 20%. Ideally, probably both genders want the 20%, but in real life, there is chemistry and attraction between people regardless of looks. You just have to get out of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Friends with ex? Why?

My ex of about a year wants to be friends after breaking up in March. After nearly hooking up about 2 months ago, he seems to now resist any attraction he feels (or so he says he feels). I still love him and don't view...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I think if you for in love with someone you just started talking to that is sexual attraction or infatuation that is not love

Emmytexrex

Xper 7 Age: 24

Girl's Behavior

If I catch a woman looking my way when I looked up after getting up and unblinking gazing, is that attraction or just looking like anyone looks?

I got up off a table after eating at a eatery ages ago. I was looking down at the table and dusting myself off and taking rubbish away. I look up after a few seconds of having looked down and a woman was (staff) looking...

paledreams

Yoda Age: 32

I got up off a table after eating at a eatery ages ago. I was looking down at the table and dusting myself off and taking rubbish away. I look up after a few seconds of having looked

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He keeps joking about people thinking we’re having an affair?

I have a close guy friend- known him for 2 years. I must admit at the beginning when we first met, I crushed on him so badly. We would stop and have long chats in the corridor at work. He would always come and find me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, How would you want a guy to drop hints that he's interested?

Mostly asking the girls in their 20s. I've been staying away from upsetting women by putting them on the spot and I'm working on just having casual conversations with some hints sprinkled in to gauge how they view me. I...

DarkOsiris

Xper 3 Age: 25

Women judge men by the way they look how is that controversial?

When I was growing up, it was common to hear girls say "looks don't matter, it's all about personality." However, their actions often told a different story, especially online or in social settings with male counterparts....

JamieRobinson1994

Xper 6 Age: 31

Is it wrong that I don’t want to date someone because of their race?

He is handsome I just prefer to date my own race. I’d like my kids to look like myself. I know this makes me seem closed minded but the attraction is not all the way there for me even though he’s not a bad looking guy.

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don’t understand him?

When I first started at my company one of our managers reached out to me. Over time we’ve developed a friendship. Can’t tell you how many times he gave me comfort and encouragement, I’ve done the same for him. As time has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A girl I like used me what should I do next?

A girl I liked from work kinda used me. The first time I asked her out she said she is busy and will let me know, and obviously never did. Second time I asked her out she agreed and flaked, but she keep showing me fake...

magicturtle

Xper 4 Age: 23

Other

Can people unconsiously make you feel uncomfortable? How do you cope?

My example: This sounds ridiculous but is the truth. (I’m an introvert and struggle with socializing). Sometimes I feel like I’m childish when I talk to men who are (in most cases) older, calm & collected. These men...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Anyone else never experienced having a crush?

I hear of it so commonly but I am now 27+ and I am sure I will never experience what its like. Dont get me wrong I had relationships, long ones at that were I felt love towards the person but this crush kinda feel were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think about this Ambiguous angle of LOVE?

I have some attraction to a girl in my college but she is dating by senior who is about to passout the college . But on the other hand, She uses to look at me secretly but try to ignore as soon as i catches her sight. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why do I have such strong attractions toward all these females and won't don't none of them like me back?

So after I left my wife I have hung out with several females and a couple I really like a lot but like one stood me up twice and one let me think I had a chance and lies to me about not having a boyfriend and I found out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Do I Look?

Do you find men more attractive or women?

Both in terms of aesthetic attraction and sexual attraction.

lastlyfound

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do I feel a both strong emotional and sexual attraction to my boyfriend?

Honestly I don't know were to start , me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and 6 months were in a long distance relationship and we met in middle school and have been knowing each other since then , I've...

mariee_itzm

Xper 1 Age: 20

Is the attraction one-sided?

So, there is this guy that I like a lot. We go to the same church, so we are very respectful and mindful of how we conduct ourselves. Sometimes we smile at each other but it never goes any further than that. However, he...

Anonymous

(36-45)