Why do I feel a both strong emotional and sexual attraction to my boyfriend?

[mariee_itzm]

Honestly I don't know were to start , me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and 6 months were in a long distance relationship and we met in middle school and have been knowing each other since then , I've been in a relationship before but I don't count it as one because it was a middle school relationship with a boy who did more than break my heart but now that I'm actually in a real relationship with my current boyfriend I've become more clingy and mentally attached and sexually aroused by him to the point it sometimes scares /disgust me.. because I don't understand why I'm so happy and turned on by a another person.. the comfort , happiness and wet dreams I get because of him are unmatched. and its not like i should be surprised about how much i truly love him... to the point i both dream and day dream about him constantly... It's just crazy to think about..

[_piotr]

You are probably a guy hiding behind a pink account. What you described fits man, not women. Women do not feel sexual attraction to men. They are themselves a source of sexual attraction. I can't imagine women having sexual desires or wet dreams because of a man. Men are not attractive and women say only personality matters, so something is wrong here...

[molonski2]

You are very young , and its long distance , I would not be concerned just keep getting on with life.

[mariee_itzm]

I'm not sure what u mean by"it's long distance" .. I'm still in a real committed relationship with someone It doesn't matter that I'm still young..

[molonski2]

Youth makes a massive difference as you will find out as life goes on , it also makes a massive difference to Lobito , being young is great , enjoy it while its there.

Forget the long distance ( I re read the question ) .

[Anonymous]

It is called being normal, unlike talking to an AI bot like you have done on here.

[mariee_itzm]

I had a feeling that it was AI.. his response was way too quick , also how was I supposed to know that's normal if I've never experienced it before?

[AI Opinion]

It sounds like you've hit the jackpot of emotional and sexual chemistry with your beau! That intense connection you're feeling? It's a blend of familiarity, longing due to the distance, and a deep, growing bond strengthened over time. Being clingy or overly attached can sometimes come from fear of losing something so valuable, especially after a past heartbreak. It's like your heart and body are throwing a party because they know you've found something special. There's no need to be scared or disgusted by these feelings. It's a sign of a strong, passionate love that many people dream of. Revel in the joy, the dreams, and yes, even the daydreams. What you're experiencing is a beautiful reminder of how deeply another person can touch our lives. Just remember to balance that passion with personal space and mutual respect for each other's independence. True love thrives on a mix of together-time and personal growth. Keep the flames burning bright but don't forget to stoke your own fire, too!

[mariee_itzm]

Wow u responded awfully quick thank you for the feedback.. I understand I shouldn't be cautious or disgusted/ scared by these overwhelming feelings.. I've never really experienced such a deep connection to a person not even family.. I guess I can really say I found my forever person

[Serkee]

@mariee_itzm He responded so quickly because he's a bot.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like a good thing, don't ruin it for yourself bro

[GawkVoidArisen]

doesn't seem like a problem?

[mariee_itzm]

I wouldn't say it is I'm just having a hard time understanding why I'm having these intense feelings and why I feel so captivated in being happy/ comfortable and sexually aroused without him even being able to touch me

[GawkVoidArisen]

Because you can imagine it?
mybe that makes it better than the real thing/?
mind following me? :P) I have some questions toooo

[mariee_itzm]

Sure

[Con29]

Don’t seem like a problem