Friends with ex? Why?

[Anonymous]

My ex of about a year wants to be friends after breaking up in March. After nearly hooking up about 2 months ago, he seems to now resist any attraction he feels (or so he says he feels).

I still love him and don't view him platonically. I'd like some physical benefits from the friendship but I know this might be detrimental and he doesn't share this desire. But... why does he want to be friends? We meet 2x a month or sometimes more, talk often and have open conversations like we always have.

[Anonymous]

So he can fuck you when he wants. He knows you still have feelings for him. Move on. This dude just wants to bang you. He’s going to use your feelings against you. Especially when he wants to beat that muff. He’s going to start saying things to make you feel “special,” like he’s changed, then you’re going to let your guard down as well as your bloomers. Move on. Or don’t if you’re ok w being screwed over.

[naartjie]

Are you dumb? Block his ass so you can move on and meet a real man.
You can’t be friends with someone you love and want to fuck.
THIS is why men don’t want their girl to have guy friends 🤦🏼‍♀️

[Anonymous]

He’s basically saying that he doesn’t want anything more from you other than sex, he just wants to hookup and remain friends while he’s free to date around.

[AlinaJanowska18]

Maybe he wants to return everything, but he is afraid to admit it first because of himself and also to you. But he feels attracted to you and therefore wants to be friends with you

[spartan55]

So he can still fuck you... hello.

[Asker]

I've already offered but he says it isn't a good idea

[spartan55]

Who knows then.

[Danny_dan92]

Because they’re stupid