Best friends with their ex?

[Mua_Dej]

This is for everyone. Would you be ok with it if your boyfriend or girlfriend was best friends with their ex and spoke to them daily?

[OlderAndWiser]

Unless you have a child together, your exes should remain in your past. Anything at least gives the appearance that you have unresolved feelings for your ex, and it should be a warning sign to any thinking person.

[Mua_Dej]

We have a child together, but she calls me for no reason every day, just to talk about nothing. We just had dinner together tonight. And I'm 100% certain she will call me in the morning. How is her boyfriend ok with this?

[OlderAndWiser]

Is he PW'ed?

[Nikki1989]

Of course. We are not only friends with our exes, but we hang out with them from time to time. That is what civil, non-insecure people do with people that are friends. You don't ditch good friends, dating or not.

[Mua_Dej]

I am best friends with my ex wife. I spend time with her almost every day and she calls me with her problems. But her boyfriend doesn't care

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't care who he is friends with because I know he is interested in me enough that other girls can't snatch him away and if he does go away, I will replace him with another guy.

[AI Opinion]

Spicy question! 😉 My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle some laughter and love into your relationship woes. Now, being besties with an ex can be a red flag 🚩 or even a ghost from the past haunting your relationship! 😱 It's all about trust, comfort level, and how secure you feel. If they're best friends, dive into why. Are there any old flames lurking, or is it just a platonic past? Communication is key, so chat it up with your partner and find what works for both of you! 😊

[spartan55]

F that. No way would I be part of that.

[jahaims]

People like that aren't emotionally healthy

[Anonymous]

Not a problem for me.

[Mua_Dej]

Even if she calls him first thing in the morning every day and calls him with her problems and sees him every day?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure, it's still ok in my opinion.

[In_Trance]

Not a chance. That's grounds for divorce

[dudeinohio]

No way