Why do I have such strong attractions toward all these females and won't don't none of them like me back?

So after I left my wife I have hung out with several females and a couple I really like a lot but like one stood me up twice and one let me think I had a chance and lies to me about not having a boyfriend and I found out she did and was hiding it from me.
Aside from them two I had one that got my dick all hard and when I wanted to fuck her she said she was on her period but I can put in in her butt but my insecurities kept me shy and it didn't happen and she got locked up, this other girl told me she was toxic and that I don't wamt that which she wasn't lying but still she got my dick hard also and then nothing, and so then this last one was cool and talking and supposed to go floating but we hung out and it felt like to me that she got mad because we didn't do it one night and I also had one more get mad at me because I Saud I just wanted to be friends.
So my question is why do I have such strong feelings and attractions toward these females because I really liked them all except the last one I talked about she is a total complete whore and probably comes with diseases? And why do they all appear to like me or be into me at some time but in the end nothing happens but lies and losing interest in me why is this?
Why do I have such strong attractions toward all these females and won't don't none of them like me back?
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