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There are two guys I know who are pretty good friends. The question is end up the most desirable and successful in life? So who is going to be doing better in 25 years if we can check on them again. I will describe them to you and you decide who will fare better in life. And make your choice and explain your belief.

Guy 1:
Guy 1 Is 25 years old and is recent college graduate. He met guy 2 while working a blue collar job to sustain himself and worked through college and graduated college with no debt, owns his own car lives in his own apartment. He now works at a decent tech company. He is a hard working person, learns quickly and moves with purpose and vision. He's a thin, fit guy who is very dedicated to fitness and loves to go to the gym. He's very young looking for his age, couldn't grow facial hair on a bet. He likes to read and likes to learn new things. He's got lots of interests and he's strong and smart. He has dated, and had a couple of relationships, moderate dating and he can fairly easily get a date, in fact women ask him out some times.

Guy 2:
Guy 2 is 24. He still works at the blue collar job, but he's trying to get a better job in the industry and he's about to get it. He, however, has not been to college in fact he did not even graduate high school. He dropped out because he got his girlfriend pregnant at 16 had had a baby with her. He has been already married and divorced. He lives paycheck to paycheck, barely sustaining himself in the trailer that he rents with his child. Though not educated guy 2 is good with numbers and is just good at math generally. He too, is a hard working guy and he tries to do the right things, but he has a child and it's harder. He's a good looking thin guy that doesn't care for the gym he gets enough exercise at work, but he's fairly confident. He doesn't date much, but he has had a fair share of brief hookups.

I tend to attract much younger women easier than women my own age. I had a fling going on with a 22 year old a few months ago. I’ve been recently texted up a 21 year old but swings from interested to flighty.

This has its advantages and disadvantages. On one end I’ll admit younger girls are usually hotter, more energetic and fun. Ironically I can be less guarded with some of my own vulnerabilities AFTER I establish a connection. I notice women closer to my age seem to get smart in the wrong ways (they find flaws quickly, fixate on them and reject prematurely).

But on the flip side I have to be very careful with younger women when it comes to avoid “the creep“ vibe. It’s just too easy to just say one wrong thing in beginning and it’s game over. It doesn’t matter if it’s intentional or not. I can’t get away saying a fraction of things I used to say in my youth.

But then I get worried about coming off as boring. Yes younger women like maturity in older guys but I got to be playful. But again it’s a pain in the ass that I have to be careful about joking around (e. g. sexual stuff). I was never the type to use pick up lines or make sexual comments right away but still. How would you like an older attractive guy to start a conversation with you?

We have women and men's soccer teams that can't fill a 5000 seat arena. If the people won't buy tickets and no one is watching games on TV , they should give it up and leave or go out of business. It is taxation without representation to use tax revenue to pay players and team owners to keep it. The women had to cancel games because of no interest.

Same with women's professional basketball. They want women to make what a man makes but women can't fill the arenas. Not enough sponsors wanting to sponsor team. So, they will use tax revenue to pay women the difference. That is why we can never pay off Debt. It is wasting money on a product that no one wants to watch. Socialism to the 10th degree.

Democrats do this with businesses too. Company is pro environment but no one wants their product , so Gov't pours in tax dollars and they go down the drain. Then Gov't wants to increase taxes to pour more down the rat hole.

Liberals don't care , they want the economy to fail so they can boast capitalism doesn't work so lets go to Communism. Capitalism only fails when Gov't interferes and doesn't allow a free market. You can't interfere by using tax dollars to help some companies but not others. Or make laws so other businesses that can't compete. Or use environment to add costs to businesses. Liberals don't know how small businesses work because they never ran a small business. Again , they don't care if all small businesses go under. They want them to be dependent on the Gov't. Gov't should quit favoring Corporations over small businesses. They allow corporations to avoid laws and make small businesses abide by them.