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Search Results: turn off
How would you handle my online “friend”?
Should I be turned off by my online friend? Or am I overthinking this? So I’ve had an online friend for a few years and he started wishing me a happy birthday every year after we got to know each other a little better....
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you think of guys that study/studied computer science?
I've been hearing that it's a turn-off lately
ClassicDropout
Xper 6 Age: 29 
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Yoda Age: 30 Ladies if a man hadn't had sex in a long time and didn't have a high body count could you still be with him and/or marry him?
Right now it is 8 years going on 9 in several months. I ask not so much that I am concerned about purely sex. It is more so my concerns about how a woman will view me when I have to tell her the truth. Because I have been...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this normal?
I met this dude on fb over 9 years ago , he was married and at the time I met him he was separated. We talked for a few months, then they got back together and I didn’t heard anything of him. They had two daughters at the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this aspect of our relationship toxic?
To preface, we’ve known each other for a year (we went on dates, it was a situationship, he wasn’t ready for me to be his girlfriend due to him wanting to advance in life first, he was doing the boyfriend duties and we...
Anonymous
(18-24) Would you end a date with someone who puts others down for their own gain?
Say you go out on a date with a man/woman and they go out of their way to speak poorly about some stranger they don’t know just to be an ass. How much of a turn off is that? How fast would you end that date? Honestly,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it a turn off if a girl snores? Is that a huge deal breaker?
in my 20’s I’ve never snored. Just started in my thirties and it worries, me. I know the right person wouldn’t care, but I don’t know if it’s a big turn off still.
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would he say he likes me but not make an effort to reach out? am I overthinking it because I don’t feel interested anymore?
My mom’s friend, who has worked with my mom for over 20 years, has a nephew who mentioned to her that he likes me… weve known eachother since we were kids. He took me to the military ball in high school. He had a...
Anonymous
(25-29) I complained about a coworker and I am not sure if I did the right thing?
I have an admin who did the following back in May: - followed me around being "nosy" and would interfere with my work. For example, I would be going through classrooms trying to clean, she would come in 2 minutes later...
roxystars19
Xper 6 Age: 27 Is it common to just get ignored whenever you ask "hot strangers" for help?
when I get lost or am completely new to an establishment, I usually grab the nearest person to ask for directions. There were 3 times where I attempted to ask for directions to really attractive men. I never intended to...
Anonymous
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(36-45) Is it safe to meet up in a hotel with a man I haven’t yet met but have talked with online?
Please read this before answering. We met on a social media (non dating) app. We really hit it off online. Talking all day, up all night, so many similarities, etc. We have exchanged Snapchats and he has sent me videos...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is there such thing as premeditated self defense charges?
I remember one time I was on the road and some road rager was following me and he stopped when he saw I was driving into an alleyway, long story short I was gonna shoot him in the alleyway, well that would be worse case,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it really acceptable for a woman to creep shame a man for ONLY noticing her body (and he’s not hitting on her) when she’s dresses provocatively?
On Halloween night I hit up a kava bar that I like to frequent. I’m not an alcoholic but I’ve really stayed away from booze in the last few years just for health reasons. The place is meant for recovery. While I went...
Anonymous
(36-45) TW- Was I R@ped?
I have been SA'ed by 3 guys and 2 of them r@ped me or i think it was. This took place at college where I would be dropped off and picked up. I Was alone from 6am-8pm everyday On campus with Nobody to actually talk to or...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my ex friend blaming me for sending out her nudes and not her ex boyfriend she's been messing with online?
So I had a friend I helped out a lot who turned on me yet agin after getting a new boyfriend. She has come back every year begging for help with new issues she created for herself. With the worse issues being 1. Raped by...
ghost1223
Xper 1 Age: 24 I am a Christian women and was leaving Church on a Sunday when two Muslim women passed me and spit on me. What would you have done?
So, on one Sunday I was leaving Church and as I was one of the last ones to leave no one was really around. As I am walking to my car two Muslims women pass me and one spits at my feet and the other directly on the side...
michelle2005
Xper 1 Age: 26 Should I ask him to pee sitting down?
I’m roommates with my cousin. He’s male, 20 years old. He goes to university, and plays hockey. He transferred to this university at the start of the school year because it has a better hockey program. We live together on...
Anonymous
(18-24) Would you be turned off if you were dating a vengeful person?
I ditched a date once for that reason. He wasted 10 years on that. Prior to him telling me that, he had good qualities and I was ready to exclusively date him. But that vengeful trait ruined it. Personally I think that's...
Anonymous
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