Why would he say he likes me but not make an effort to reach out? am I overthinking it because I don’t feel interested anymore?

[Anonymous]

My mom’s friend, who has worked with my mom for over 20 years, has a nephew who mentioned to her that he likes me… weve known eachother since we were kids. He took me to the military ball in high school. He had a girlfriend at the time and I believe he’s on and off with someone.. we live in different states and he’s in the navy..

I asked about him and followed him on social media about a year ago, I dm him and we exchanged numbers. He said we should talk on the phone one day and I say sure… but he never reached out…

However, my mom suggested that I should reach out to him first, but I don’t want to do that. I’m starting to feel turned off by the lack of effort, and honestly, I’m not as interested anymore. I like him as a friend and nothing more… I’m tired of going through hurtful situations or men not showing me that they actually want me..

I’m a bit nervous to tell them that I don’t like him.

[Finchie40]

He probably sensed that you aren’t really interested in him anymore? so he decided to not call you back, especially if you put him in the friend zone? . When a girl really likes a guy , she pretty much makes it known that she likes him , by investing a lot of her time into him , by calling him or texting him on a steady basis , and looking forward to seeing him as soon as possible , so if you didn’t sound that excited that he likes you , then he probably took it as you weren’t really interested in him so he pretty much threw in the towel on you

[spartan55]

He is probably turned off by your lack of effort too.

[Asker]

I reached out first…

[spartan55]

Your post didn't say that.

[Asker]

I did

[spartan55]

I wasn't counting the reconnnection.

[moneymagnet24]

You're 25 now and you think he still like you just because he told you decade ago that he likes you? 😂

[Asker]

No you idiot my mom told me yesterday that he told his aunt that he liked me RECENTLY

[moneymagnet24]

Um I'm idiot? Ohk then listen smart cunt.
If he told your mom that he like you means just as a friend no feelings af all..
If he have feelings for you then he told ya first not your mom.

Understand smart bitch?

[Asker]

No small dick. He told his aunt and his aunt told my mom? Got it ug muffin?

[moneymagnet24]

Aw trust me Emma Watson
He came to know you're too smart for normal guy...
You should fly to mars for your level of smart guy...😘

[Asker]

🥱🥱🥱 you should eat more. You LOOK starved. You seem lightheaded

[moneymagnet24]

Thanks for staring my pfp..

Can I eat your pussy? 🤌

[Asker]

No thanks. I like staying disease free

[moneymagnet24]

Aw swaty your birth certificate is the report of the disease. 🤌😘