Firstly, what you are doing is both a man and woman thing. As it relates to your dynamic the following is applicable.
Typically, if a man is stressed out by the woman and her over-the-top insecurities then he will shut down. Whether it is intended or not too much pressure to be like someone else is being exerted. Again, whether unintended or purposeful, too much negativity infects a relationship. Perhaps, you can define what you are really fearing to yourself. At that point, let it be and stop looking for it around every corner. Stop ✋ letting it consume every corner of your Being into overthinking.You are orchestrating a self-fulfilling prophecy.-In such a thing you have allowed your Fears to dictate your Outcomes which are in fact your Fears themselves realized. It is obviously unhealthy and counterproductive. The only way that I know to beat it is to change your “Self-Talk”. Obviously not to the point of lying to yourself as the goal is to have relationship at an even keel. It’s about taking control of Self…for the most part.
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