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at first I thought it was something sweet he was doing, it is common for boyfriends to feed their girlfriends every once in a while, when my boyfriend did it too me I thought it was the sweetest thing ever he even read me bedtime stories to go to sleep ( he loves to read bedtime stories to everyone so that part isn’t weird it’s just something he likes doing” but it’s got to the point where he told me if I can sit on his lap so he can feed me I felt uncomfortable but told myself he just wanted to be nice and I didn’t want to rude so I said yeah of course! But while he was feeding me he made the airplane noises you know like the one parents do to their little kids to make them open their mouths. I started to get weirded out but again I told myself I was overreacting I then thanked him. Sometimes he does feed me at times and calls me his little girl ( because he’s 6’1 im 5’1 not sure if this is a kink of his or because he’s taller than me” am I overreacting? Is he weird?

So I thought it was legit love. He talked of a future, etc. I didn't know he had visa issues till recently. Months after a bit of an issue between us.

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But when I asked for more than just meeting up to have sex he proceeded to.

He suggested we'd go to a movie & then went to his friend's birthday party without telling me. The day prior he'd suggested we'd do something that afternoon.

I ONLY got distressed / upset and maybe said things bluntly when it very much seemed he was only interested in sex. He was saying he wanted a future & yet his actions did not imply he was interested in anything other than sex.

Once he'd implied & once he said we'd do more - both times he bailed without telling me.

Since then his communication has been terrible at best and whenever he does communicate it's angry - because his visa issue is causing stress though I didn't know about this till recent. Or it's to either indirectly or directly in a way blame me for damaging our relationship when for weeks I'd been trying to mend things and he doesn't do jackshit (even text morning).

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The stupid thing is, is still do love him and yet it's like.

Even if he wasn't having an issue with visa his persona is not what he displayed at the start. It's actually sort of mean-spirited.