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Some facts about me:

• I am 5'6" in height
• I have never had a real girlfriend
• I am introverted and socially awkward
• I am white
• I have brown eyes
• I am currently heavyset with a round face.
• I have only had sex exactly once about 8 years ago and haven't even kissed a woman since
• I have always wanted a girlfriend so badly my entire life but have never been able to achieve getting one.
• I seek a woman where we can be each other's first loves
• I am an Aspie and have mental illness (Bipolar, anxiety, and OCD)
• I have a stalking conviction dating back 7 years ago. I plead no contest not knowing the consequences of that. I served 3 years probation.

Hi all, I love my girlfriend so much, she’s the sweetest person ever. I’m 26 and she's 27. We are together 1 year but I have to admit I really miss the game, I just want to have freedom and casual sex around the world for a year then I feel fully ready for commitment 100%. I had few casual encounters before and I miss it since I got into relationship too soon, I’m just worried I won’t ever have this experience again to hookup since I’m getting older, so want to get out of my system. I’m scared I might regret for rest of my life because she’s treat me so well and respects me or maybe I won’t regret it. I’ll admit I’m not as attracted to my girlfriend compared to my previous hookups, I’m not sure it’s maybe because it’s new encounters?

What do you think? Breakup or hang in there?

So, you connect with woman online a week ago. You chat for a few days; you exchange numbers, and you talk on the phone that Monday. So, you have been texting for about four days prior to your first phone call. Now mind you her activity bubble on the site stays green, like all the time.

Monday - she says she has Friday and Saturday off work, but maybe Friday you can get together.

Wednesday - You been texting at least three or four times a day... you ask her if Friday is still a good day, and if you can give her call on Thursday to discuss making plans. She says that she thinks we could definitely work something out.

Thursday- you text her and ask if she has time for a quick phone call. She says she is getting ready for work. So, you text her and say no worries, I just need to know if Friday is a yes or no.

She replies with I am sorry, but I made plans to go do something with a girlfriend, and she makes no comment about Saturday being an option.

Now I know what I said and did. But what I want to ask you all, is do you think she is really going out with a girlfriend, just brushing me off, or seeing another guy?