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As a guy, I've lived this. Ever since I was 12 I always had negative thoughts of myself, making me retreat, keep to myself, and away from anything hardly ever feeling like i mattered to much of anyone.. never went to a friends house. Hell, I hardly even went outside at all. I have been mostly very withdrawn socially ever since, so it just surprises me if any woman, would actually be okay with that and still like to be in a relationship with him

The way I see it, most women want the kind of guy that is sociable, strong minded, and outgoing, which i believe usually makes the woman a lot more honestly attracted to him, because I just feel like most women want a singular type of guy, and wouldn't be able to stand being in a relationship with a guy that isn't what they dream of or want. Especially if he is some shy quiet depressed guy, and I really doubt most women would actually want to help their boyfriend out of being depressed because it would be another pity party they wouldn't want to be invited to. But I kinda can't blame them. Because it's tough being with someone depressed you'd love to enjoy happy moments with them but trying to pull them through their depression and helping them realize that there are and can be better days ahead takes a lot of effort, and persistence. But what I also realize better days, better things and better relationships come because of the effort and persistence from people that care enough to help things be better.

I feel like a couple usually never stay happy together if only one of them is honestly willing to be there for them

This is a long story, you don't have to read it/

So yesterday I went to go see Dune 2 in theatres, I was by myself. As I'm watching the movie a woman behind me starts kicking my chair, I respond by taking out my phone and shining it directly in her face. She keeps kicking my chair throughout the movie and so I turn to face her husband who I confronted.

I asked him if he could stop kicking my chair. His wife raises her hand and says no it was me, so I then politely ask her to stop kicking my chair. I turn around and a few seconds later her husband taps me on the shoulder and asks if I could sit forward so his wife has more space for her feet.

At this point me and him start arguing while the movie is playing and the people around us can hear everything. I escalate things by shouting things like f you, f you and your wife, he leans forward and asks me if I want to fight, voice is very soft when he asks me this so I know he's a b. I turn to his wife and say your husband's a b and then turn around and continue watching the movie without interruption from him.

A young guy around my age in a group next to me then decides to confront me, he says "that's weird" how could you say that to a man etc. etc. Me and the young guy start exchanging insults. I say f you, call him a psyy and a pansi and continue watching the movie.

At the end of the movie as I'm going down the stairs I turn around say f you and ask him if he wants to fight I'll be waiting outside. I wait for his answer, and when he's quite I say "no?" He say's I have no friends with me and that he feels sorry for me because I went to a movie by myself. I say "f you I'm rich, tomorrow you go back to your sty as job and your sty as house, im rich f you". This is a crowded theatre and honestly it's kind of funny how nobody else said anything as we were shouting at each other. He stays quite and I walk away.

I have no respect and It might be a problem.

Maybe I should get a therapist, I'm out of touch