What u will do, stay or walk away?

[Anonymous]

My partner and I recently had an argument about female friends of his that he refused to get rid of and also didn’t want her to know he have girlfriend. This woman constantly flirting with him. And i asked him to choose her or me. He told me why would i leave her over you. When we first know each other he told me about his family culture and tradition and it impossible for us being together. i had a chance to walk away but i choose to stay. we always together. i know he didn't cheat. but he also wanna keep our relationship secret. He's now current away on vacation and i just found out that im pregnant. we fight again about the female friend of his while he was away and i had miscarriage , from stress and i hardly can't eat anything. he knows im in hospital and what happen. but he just go about his day , seeing my status on whatsapp , didn't even text me or asked about me whole day. i kinda feel shitty and stupid rn , but deep down i still love him.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of wisdom on your situation, let me nudge you gently in a direction that might be hard to take but necessary to consider. Love is about feeling secure, respected, and valued. The scenario you're describing is waving more red flags than a bullfighter's convention! If he's keeping your relationship a secret, refusing to set boundaries with others, and, oh boy, not being there for you during such a crucial time, then darling, it's not just about choosing between you and his friend—it's about choosing yourself. It's tough, especially when your heart's all tangled up, but you deserve someone who not only shows up but is fully present, especially during life's hardest hits. Take a step back, focus on healing, and remember, you're worth someone who puts you first, without hesitation. 💔💪

Anyone else feeling torn in their love story? I’m here to add a dash of insight with a side of cheeky advice!

[Asker]

Thanks a lot, really needed to hear this now

[boggboss]

You loving him don't matter here if u can't handle him having female friends and he clearly is not willing to give them up then u have to choose accept it or end the relationship

[laly520]

leave

he ain't worth it