Should I just move on?

[Anonymous]

I met some really awesome friends online last summer. We never met in real life since they all live very far away. And as we spoke to each other everyday, I grew attached.

we created a group chat to stay in touch, but things took south and we ended up splitting and never speaking again. Misunderstandings here and there. Things were nasty.

we still follow each other on social media, but I recently felt like unfollowing them, yet I’m hesitant. I’m hesitant because I want them to stay hoping one day we would speak again, but one big part of them want them to stay, because I want them to see my glow up as revenge. I don’t know why I think this way.

though I know nothing lasts for ever, so why keep o line friends you barely know, right?

ugh, I’m so turned between this and that, what should I do?

[DoggyDude]

It seems obvious to me, reading your message. You need to work out what you fought over and why that fight caused you to not talk. Once you know the answer to that, it becomes easy; Ask yourself, "was I right to treat them as I did because of what we fought about?". If you can answer yourself, "yes, it was wrong and they need to do something before I'm comfortable. You have your answer, keep away from them and make new friends.

If, however, when duely considered you realise their position whilst perhaps still disagreeable was reasonable for them to hold; Here meaning that in retrospect you r realised your friendship was more important than a squabble over something silly (relatively), then you need to reach out to them with an olvie branch and appologise for making a fuss. If their willing to listen, meaning if it won't undermine your appology, explain to them what upset you and why you acted as you did. If they are worth while friends their first position should be to appologise right back for whatever they regretted, and explain their position kindly. After which you can start again with a stronger friendship.

Good luck, remember whichever is the case, if you do as I suggest [or as wisdom has taught me, if you prefer] you will know absolutely you made the right choice, because it will leave you with a concrete reason for your choice. As a friend, I would always recommend trying to find the friends you met and came to care for within any disagreement, if you can't find those friends, accept you wheren't right and learn better what is "a friend" for you.

Blessed Be.

[Asker]

I apologized to them, but one was willing to listen. I apologized for the one bad thing I did, but they never apologized for the bigger things they have done to me.

I understand the part of communicating, that’s what I mostly prefer to do in situations like these, but I guess they couldn’t care more about it.

[DoggyDude]

I would say, if you've raised how you where upset or hurt (or angry, whatever) by what they did and they have chosen to dismiss that leaving you feeling unheard. Finding better friends is the definite key.

I had some friends when I was younger who seemed amazing for a while, and then they choose to rob my parents. I never looked back, and in retrospect, I learned a lot about what makes a good friend and haven't made a bad one since.

Good luck :)

[SueShe]

So, you want to reconnect only to seek revenge and see how they feel about you getting high on revenge?

That sounds actually pretty silly to me and makes me wonder what kind of person you are deep inside. Glowing up only on revenge leads me to believe that you may have some severe personality issues. You live an unhealthy life and to be honest, I would not want to be associated with you in any way because you seem to feed on negativity and probably also propagate negativity.

What you should do? Simply unfollow everyone and let them continue their lives. This long distance relationship was not meant to be and simply let it die without seeking revenge.

[Anonymous]

DIdn't you just post this?

[Asker]

I did but since im new I accidentally deleted my other account..

[Iron_Man]

Date him