Honeslty, I would move on. It is obvious that you still have feelings for her and somewhere deep down inside you probably want to be with her. In my experience, it is best to move on even if you had ended on good terms. There was a reason you broke up, and I wouldn't take it lightly. I was once in a situation where I thought that my relationship hadn't turned out because of having to date long distance, but once I started dissecting it I realized that there were deeper issues at hand. It was the hardest one I have ever had to get over, and though our paths may cross in the future, the best thing that I could have done was to move on and not reach out. If I had, I would have had that hope that something might still happen.
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Staying friends with an ex is not a good idea right after a breakup. It’s either you’re still in love 🥰 with them or you just need that familiarity after a loss before you finally move on. Maybe later in life when you feel nothing for them. But what is your purpose of becoming friends with them is entirely up to you. Why did you guys break up in the first place?
I think you should just tell her how you feel and that you would like her to be a part of your life. Make sure you express everything to her. Just be honest and if she feels somewhat similar, then you guys can be happy and be friends.
It's okay to be afraid of her not wanting to be a part of your life. I understand this very well, I am going through something similar. But you've to tell her how you feel and that you want her back in your life. Don't wait for too long.
Just move on. It is hard but it is a good skill to have.
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