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How can an autistic, eccentric person relate to neurotypical professionals in a social group?
I have always felt out of place amongst people who are neurotypical and conventional, especially businesspeople and I have decided to attempt to join a choir group full of lawyers, doctors, nurses and nannies. The choir...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Is she being flirty or friendly and joking?
The other day at work, I was waiting for the elevator to open… and when it did opened I was gonna step in right away. But my female co-worker was also right infront of me trying to step out of the elevator. Then, she said...
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Do people lie about dating success just to impress others or spark jealousy?
There's a man I hadn't spoken to in ages. He was not very bright except academically and not very nice in general; but we have to get on okay, because we attend the same Autistic social group. Anyway, he recently said...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Should I change my whole personality and identity just to be loved?
I have worked hard to build to be this character, it worked in a lot of places, getting marks, getting jobs, making my parents proud, getting parents love. I cheaped out on body, outdoor life in many ways. The place it...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I ask a friend to stop joking about me being fired?
I have a friend who is not very perceptive sometimes and brings up something that happened a few months ago. long story short I was fired from a job (still not sure about the reason tbh) and i shared it with a friend...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he just being nice?
The number one thing I noticed was his eye contact… most waiters just look etc but whenever he talked he made great eye contact and when he was talking to my mom he was mostly facing towards me and he looked at me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is a 10:1 damage scale between mechs and humans balanced in my RPG?
This seems obvious, but there are other scaling factors I could consider: 2, 5, and 10 seem likely and doable. So with a scale factor of 10, that means if a Mech deals 1 damage to a human, the human actually loses 10 HP....
SeekerOfTruth007
Xper 7 Age: 45 Could a draft-based government replace elections and reduce corruption?
instead of a popularity contest with all sorts of outside influence, it would be more like the court's jury duty. we wouldn't let anyone do it of course. there would be eligibility requirements. that way it is someone who...
Sevenpointfive
Master Age: 46 Do feats enhance advanced RPGs or just overcomplicate gameplay?
Examples: Dual Wielding You may use two swords or two pistols in combat at no penalty. Normally, the penalty is -2 to each weapon. == Lucky You may re-roll one failed skill check per character day. == Multi-shot You may...
SeekerOfTruth007
Xper 7 Age: 45 If a defendant is denied or unable to make bail, should government be required to pay the defendant's lost income before and during the trial?
The Sixth Amendment guarantees that in all criminal prosecutions, the accused has the right to a speedy and public trial, preventing undue delay between indictment or arrest and the start of trial. However, trials are not...
Kelley1
Yoda Age: 21 Is it normal to feel sad and anxious before a stressful work shift?
I like my co workers, but work is just really stressful. My shift starts in the evening and its hard to relax all day anticipating for my shift.
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Have you ever witnessed or experienced something so ridiculous that no one believed you?
My cousin didn't believe this place actually exists and was convinced that it's an AI generated image. I finally had to show him some video I took. My best friend in HS didn't believe me that I slipped into this...
KostasKouvalis
Master Age: 27 Do people have any desire to get married anymore these days?
Men seem to care more about their money they are wasting. Woman just care about money and have no feelings about men. I am married yes it's been rough at times but were making it. I dont quit on my husband when he's broke...
mrshooiser
Xper 6 Age: 32 Feeling apathetic before retirement: how do I stay motivated for 4.5 years?
I'm retiring in 4.5 years I no longer trying to get promoted in work And I find since I'm no longer pushing to get ahead, there's a sense of apathy. I cycle to work. Go to gym at lunch. Cycle home. But can...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Am I overreacting to my friend calling me a loser with no redeeming qualities?
Had a discussion with a friend about why my relationships never work out. She basically described me as a loser who has no redeeming qualities, it really broke me but the problem is she isn't wrong.
TheBig
Xper 1 Age: 25 Was this encounter a scam or kidnapping attempt, and how can I legally protect myself?
I was at the bus stop when a guy asked where I worked and what bank I use. He said he has a business and could help me earn extra money—around $200 a week. He claimed that if I said I worked at a construction site, it...
Anonymous
(18-24) If you’re attracted to a woman would you be turned off/ put off if her mom tries to connect you two?
If you’re at work or out… would that make you anxious or embarrassed or does that mean you’re not really interested
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it true that men feel insecure about dating a woman if they aren’t where they want to be career wise/ financially?
Can a man be attracted to a woman but feels too insecure because of where he works or doesn’t feel ready. Especially if he works a subservient position
Anonymous
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Redpowerranger98
Xper 5 Age: 34 Another woman told me that she couldn’t date a man who serves her like the pool boy, server ect.. what if he has a plan though?
She was repulsed by the idea of me being attracted to a man who has a different job… but if he has a plan, if he’s in school or if he lets you know he’s more than his current job… or is it bad to date a work in progress...
Anonymous
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