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I saw a guy write on here “As a man the biggest lesson is that no one gives a f about you.” That hit me deep. I can’t phrase it better.

Everything we do and go through is unnoticed. Women nowadays are blind to everything. I can’t find a girlfriend and I am 29. I’ve never had one

I’m getting old, I find it sad that a girl hasn’t come up to me and shown me interest and then I have been rejected.

I am looking for something that isn’t real. Also, every girl 25+ has had like 4 boyfriends etc. I deserve far far better than how women have treated me.

These are the exact words from the speech:

"Silence of the Lamb. Has anyone ever seen The Silence of the Lambs? The late, great Hannibal Lecter is a wonderful man. He oftentimes would have a friend for dinner. Remember the last scene? “Excuse me. I’m about to have a friend for dinner.” As this poor doctor walked by. “I’m about to have a friend for dinner.” But Hannibal Lecter. Congratulations, the late great Hannibal Lecter. We have people who are being released into our country that we don’t want in our country, and they’re coming in totally unchecked, totally unvetted."

Does the verb tense "is" mean he thinks Hannibal Lecter was real and not fictitious? Why is he congratulating a fictitious figure and a disturbed serial killer at that? Does he think Hannibal Lecter was an illegal immigrant? Is Hannibal Lecter a valid comparison to an illegal immigrant or do the two have nothing in common?

This question was inspired by another recent question from a female who was hurt because her man said he would want a paternity test if they had kids. Whether or not most people realize it, paternity fraud is very common today. Most studies have shown about one in ten children is raised by a man who thinks he is the biological father but is not.

Should it become the norm for mothers to just offer to do a paternity test without being asked, so the father is not put in that awkward position of having to asking for one or wonder for the rest of his life whether he is the actual father? It would be a gesture of love that shows she is loyal and appreciates her man’s commitment and trust and doesn’t want him to ever have a reason to question hers.

Should this become the norm? Or would women be against it to show solidarity with the many mothers who cheated and hid it from their husbands, children, and the real fathers?