Do you have any advice on how to approach one guy that I may be attracted to but had a bad experience with in my previous relationship?

[Spatmates25]

I'm maybe attracted to one guy that I saw one time when I was at adult gaming in April on Thursday. I was playing a video game called just dance but didn't noctied until after he was right next to me. Then I did see the guy and did noicted the guy to me. I did try to say hello. I didn't get much chance since I went on holiday / vacation. Now that I'm back from holiday / vacation. Did say bye to that one guy. Did say bye back to me. I still wanted to talk to one guy more but didn't have much time since carpark in limited time spot. Last Thursday wasn't there this time and was trying to talk to different people. I had a bad experience with some previous relationships with some men. I know not all men are like that. Just some can be bad men but other men can be real good men. Do you have any advice on how to approach one guy that I may be attracted to but had a bad experience with in my previous relationship?

[OlderAndWiser]

You are saying that you had a previous bad experience with SOME guy, or you had a previous bad experience with THIS guy who has captured your fancy? If a previous bad experience with THIS guy, what was the experience? I didn’t read anything that sounded like a bad experience with this guy.

[Spatmates25]

Nope not seen anyone one guy before just after I started going to adult gaming event nothing do with mostly of my ex bfs I throught I put the word ex bfs in detail not the same guys or men. I had bad experience with other men that were friends.

[OlderAndWiser]

How does your past experience with other guys cause a problem now? I don’t know if you had a guy rape you or if he expected you to pay for the date or what. There’s many different bad experiences and the details may be helpful.

[Spatmates25]

Hasn't nothing with rape. I don't let guys paid I paid for my own food. Had some previous ex boyfriend cheated on me and other last ex boyfriend was toxic verbal.

[Spatmates25]

Hasn't nothing do with rape

[OddBeMe]

Less trying and eagerness is always first rule. Treat it as a friend getting coffee or a beer later.

[ManlyMan111]

If you find a guy attractive and you wanna approach him, just be confident and be yourself, if you had bad experience with other guys in the past then those guys didn't deserve you.

If you find a guy attractive just take your chance and approach them and if he says no then that's alright because there's plenty of fish in the sea, that right guy is always out there for you somewhere.

[Spatmates25]

I don't really have many options like other women since I get attracted to very rare men and has always been with men with learning disabilities. Can't have mainstream men. I hate one of my parents that is my mum. made rules for dating. Did change some one rules of dating or be in a relationship with a moderate learning disabilities men only.

[SotiCoto]

Face him and walk forwards.

[KrakenAttackin]

Is he a Chad like your last guy?

[Spatmates25]

Nope but was a toxic guy

[slatyb]

Just say ,"Hi, I saw you here in... I'm Spat."

[Spatmates25]

That not my real name is a username.

[slatyb]

Of course. I assumed that you would get the idea.

[Spatmates25]

How the fuck does this help me.

[GoodEnoughThen]

@slatyb How the fuck does Spatmates25 help you? I think he is simply suggesting you sometimes just gotta take a chance on someone new and just say hi to them.