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So I thought it was legit love. He talked of a future, etc. I didn't know he had visa issues till recently. Months after a bit of an issue between us.

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But when I asked for more than just meeting up to have sex he proceeded to.

He suggested we'd go to a movie & then went to his friend's birthday party without telling me. The day prior he'd suggested we'd do something that afternoon.

I ONLY got distressed / upset and maybe said things bluntly when it very much seemed he was only interested in sex. He was saying he wanted a future & yet his actions did not imply he was interested in anything other than sex.

Once he'd implied & once he said we'd do more - both times he bailed without telling me.

Since then his communication has been terrible at best and whenever he does communicate it's angry - because his visa issue is causing stress though I didn't know about this till recent. Or it's to either indirectly or directly in a way blame me for damaging our relationship when for weeks I'd been trying to mend things and he doesn't do jackshit (even text morning).

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The stupid thing is, is still do love him and yet it's like.

Even if he wasn't having an issue with visa his persona is not what he displayed at the start. It's actually sort of mean-spirited.

2 months ago, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs on first meet up. We were in contact via Instagram messages. Then we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie. The day before movie I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. On day of movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on first meet up , I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. When I spoke with him on phone day before movie, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but after movie he sent a message just now saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. I was more upset that he beat me to rejecting him, I would have done it if he didn’t. Flash fwd to a month ago, he sends me a dm with an inside joke, I just left him on read again. He continues to follow me on social media but unmatched with me from the dating app we met through, I unfollowed him from IG.