My boyfriend spends more time with his friends and family more than he does with me. I understand we've only been together for two months but still. He talks plans he wants to do with me such as going out to eat, going to movies, etc and I get excited but they rarely happen. We always end up at his place LATE at night after he's done with his other plans. He wakes up and has his plans all set. Even calls me the morning of like we are going to hang out early. Every time it’s go to the gym, hang out with friends, work etc and then hangs out with me last. He makes it seem like we are going to hang out early but he ends up telling me to come late. Some days he sets an early time in the day to hang out with me but purposely do his plans late to stall time so that I could come late. I'm always last when he has things to do. He does spend a lot of time on the phone with me i will give him that. I ask him for a small task and he will do it at the VERY last minute. I asked him once if he could bring me something he had to my house but he told me for me to get it later late at night at his place after work. (He gets off really late at night around 1am and he has time in the morning on his days off but waits until the last minute to hang out with me). He was literally four minutes away from me at a friends house when I asked him to do it, couldve given it to me but told me to wait until he was done with his friends or wait until midnight after 1 when he was off work. I do everything for him including doing tasks for him on my days off while he's at work. I bring him lunch when he ask and i even stay on the phone when he's bored at work. When I refuse to do something for him he says i dont love or care about him. i dont know what to do.
I also caught onto it and got mad at him and spoke to him about it. He says he doesn't understand why im so angry and where is all this coming from. He says i must have a lot going and he’s not going to up with it.
