Search Results: not looking for a relationship right now

Would you date someone that lived in another country?

Im 34 yr old single man. Living in St. Louis, MO. I do alright in the dating world. I'm an average looking guy with a good job, and I can be very charming. But I have a hard time finding women that I truly connect with. I...

wtf636

Xper 5 Age: 39

Relationships

Do I trust this guy or is he playing me?

I've been through some abuse so I'm paranoid. Tell me if I'm being unfair. I've met this 33 M who works for my bosses husband. He's stayed here a few times in the last 2 months and the 2nd or 3rd time we kissed while I...

KittyImpala67

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

He said let me think on it. What does that mean?

Met a guy on tinder and started talking to him and let him know I was really only looking for a friends with benefits type thing. Of course he was all for it. Talked sexually for a couple days but then he started texting...

Haleighbugg

Xper 4 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

How do I go about this situation? How to be friends with the possibility of more? Not wanting anything serious?

I recently was being pursued and getting to know a guy that I really fell for. I knew him years ago and liked him. Everything about him seemed truly like everything I was looking for so far. He was honest, up front,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Your SO hates your birthday gift. What do you do?

It’s my bf’s bday. Everything was fine until he opened the gifts I got him. Suddenly he became very quiet and wouldn’t look at me. Now he went to bed and it’s only 8pm (which he never does). Part of me feels bad...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

How to Actually Survive Your Freshman Year of College

First off, congratulations on being lucky enough to avoid having your Freshman year start in 2020. I can mainly start off this piece by not having to talk about potential imminent threats to your health and safety, so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Guy's Behavior

Not ready to be serious? Only looking for some hookups?

I was recently talking to this guy from my past who I only knew briefly. He asked me many times if we could go on a date sometime and expressed interest. He seemed shy or insecure at times but I started to really like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Do my coworkers have a crush on me?

I'm a guy in his early 20s with no dating experience. I think I look fairly good body wise, but I'm quite anxious about my facial appearance. At work I believe two of my female colleagues may have (or had) a crush...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

The road not taken: Dealing with the choices in life we regret!

My apologies ahead of time for those who had a mini panic attack thinking they had been whisked back to high school English courses and needing to write essays on Robert Frost. I assure you that while there will be an...

Ez-Bri-Z

Editor Age: 46

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How Do I Look?

If they branched this out into a dating site, what would your profile on GirlsMeetGuys say?

I thought about this for a while. There was this one girl, a pink anon, who was trying to find love on this site a while ago. She posted her profile on here. I know this site is not a dating site (and some would argue it...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

Relationships

Am I overthinking to ask to meet up with him, is this a green light?

I’ve been speaking to a boy on and off for around 7 months. Wow didn’t realise how long it’s been myself, we met up and we spent the whole day together. He messaged me every other day but he’s not much of a good texter...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Hi - What does everyone suggest I do in this situation please help with you’re opinions?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why would he say all this then pull himself away? he’s been in a toxic absuive relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is this a normal friendship , did I ruin it by having sex with one of them?

So I’m really good friends with two guys. Who are both best friends. One of them I had sexual history with the other is a sweet heart who actually hangs out with me outside of our usual hang out times. The one who i used...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Low self-esteem because of married man's inappropriate advances, help?

I need help. A married guy is hitting on me in various ways. He's been cute about it, trying to be a gentleman, but he also touched me subtly in sexual areas like my thigh or even my breast. It was slight and he made it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

How can I let go of the guilt I have for talking with older guys?

Im just sad I self sabotaged... I ended my own childhood and probably most of my teen hood. I’ll make this short and not too detailed. But basically at 12 I dated a guy 6 years older it was long distance relationship. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

10 Warning Signs of a Toxic Partner

Sometimes people whom we think would be the perfect match for us don't end up being so. They become toxic, and toxic people are not worth your time. This take is written in a male point of view. One reason is because...

Kontrvnote

Xper 5 Age: 29

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Guy's Behavior

Home Chats

The True Origin and Intent of the Term 'INCEL'

Okay, so I came across another #INCEL question (this one asked by a presumably self-labelled INCEL, but it was not specified), and frankly, the responses prompted this take. Some things need to be clarified. Let me first...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Relationships

I kissed my crush/close friend but I'm kinda confused so can I get some help?

I wanna start off with this was my first kiss so I was very happy it was with this guy! So the other day I was lying on my crushes shoulder (which I was proud of because im normally scared of touching the opposite...

Justagirlwithacrush6

Xper 3 Age: 23

Relationships

Accidentally called my boyfriend hubby?

We were cuddling. He said something cute then asked me a question (I can't remember what) but it cause me to say thanks hubby. I didn't even realize I said it until he said it back to me. He blushed and hugged me tight...

Anonymous

(25-29)