Is this a normal friendship , did I ruin it by having sex with one of them?

[Anonymous]

So I’m really good friends with two guys. Who are both best friends. One of them I had sexual history with the other is a sweet heart who actually hangs out with me outside of our usual hang out times. The one who i used to be sexual with and I still sleep in the same bed together after bar night. He gets a little jealous at times when other guys flirt with me ( he doesn’t show emotion but when guys flirt all the sudden he’s all over me and ends up having multiple petty issues with them like the smell of them, their beard etc) and the other points out and/or laughs when other people flirt with me. The one that I had history with also said he’s not looking for a relationship which right now I’m absolutely fine with because I don’t want to be in a relationship either. I love them both and they tell me they love me too but I hope I didn’t mess things up from the beginning

[Ghostykill3r]

I don't think anyone can really give you an answer. It all depends on the people involved and their feelings. It kind of sounds like that guy is interested in you by the way they talk about other guys, I can get like that sometimes but try not to. I would say many times two people sleep together it changes their relationship, but not always.

[Asker]

We are back to being friends and he did say that he can get jealous but he tries not to also. He’s usually really in control of his emotions. When I say that I mean he usually doesn't show emotions at all lol

[Ghostykill3r]

That sounds like me lol, I barely show emotions. Like I said he may be into you because of how he's acting towards other guys, I know with some of my female friends that I'm into, I can get like that even if I'm not actively trying to date them

[Anonymous]

I dont know. I just have a feeling that won't end very well.

[Asker]

Fair

[YOLOIFIC]

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ only one way to find out.

[Wise4myage]

Sex does have a way of messing things up.