There is so so much I could tell you. I don't think I have heard enough details to really pinpoint things but. I do not mind one bit about being a friend. I don't mind listening at any time needed. I don't mind giving advice. I don't even mind if the advice isn't taken. I will do just as a friend is supposed to do and support the choice you make. Feel free to private message me or just talk to me here if that's your choice. The best advice or help I can say at this moment you are going to have to read it slowly think very long and hard on it and as with all things apply the kiss method to it. That's the keep it simple stupid method. It means don't make it complicated cause that makes it hard. Now. Here is the advice. Please at first remember that it is going to sound like I'm being hard on you but it is simply the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth. You can not will not and have never ever in your life so far and forever more. make anyone happy. No one has is or will ever make you or anyone else happy. Only you can do that for you but never to or for anyone else. You can add to their happiness or level of happiness but you will never make anyone but you happy. Just think long and hard on that. When it sinks In and once you finally live while all of that becomes the natural and only way you see think and believe that like you did before that became your normal natural way of thinking and acting it's at that point you can add happiness to others In more efficient and more effective ways plus you will have a more pleasant disposition about yourself. As for your childhood. Take something from my day. I don't want to grow up Im a toys are us kid. I still have childlike fun imaginations creativity and all kinds of things. Just always be who you really are without worry of what anyone thinks of you and you will be any age you wish
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Children are just that... Children. As a child you made bad decisions, that is Very Normal, the internet is sometimes a bad place for children to play, it can get out of control fast... you are NOT responsible for the silly and foolish things that you did as a child. The Men that approached you "Thought" you were older, they did not know you were a child...
Give yourself a Break... you are older now and you Learned a Lot from your mistakes... All children make Mistakes. And that is OK, as long as you learn.
You get to start over, you are an adult now, and you know many things that other girls your age do not know...
This is YOUR LIFE... live it and continue to learn as you go, we all doYou need to focus on forgiving yourself and yes, therapy would be a good idea. Also, don’t give up trying to make new friends.
Sounds like you need a Silent G. But unfortunately, our population has sort of declined like credit cards in memes.
start by forgiving yourself, then take one step at a time along your new life
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