I'm a guy in his early 20s with no dating experience.
I think I look fairly good body wise, but I'm quite anxious about my facial appearance.
At work I believe two of my female colleagues may have (or had) a crush on me. The first is not mutual, but her behaviours included walking with me after work, talking about family, food preferences, [lots of info]. I think I disappointed her when I showed interest in another colleague.
The second may be mutual; she puts on a different girly accent when speaking to me, she tries to copy my behaviour, she puts on perfume when she knows I'm around, and she wears quite... "complimentary" office-wear. I messaged her once to ask her if she'd like to catch up over coffee, but I downplayed it to merely work when I next saw her, because I thought it might have been inappropriate.
What do you think?
I know workplace relationships are a booby-trapped minefield of epic proportions, but I don't know any alternative places to meet people irl right now.
As a guy I'm hopeless at dating, I've come up dry so far in life - not that others haven't shown interest, but with all the media I've seen that says men are toxic to ask women out I feel like I can't by society.
I think I look fairly good body wise, but I'm quite anxious about my facial appearance.
At work I believe two of my female colleagues may have (or had) a crush on me. The first is not mutual, but her behaviours included walking with me after work, talking about family, food preferences, [lots of info]. I think I disappointed her when I showed interest in another colleague.
The second may be mutual; she puts on a different girly accent when speaking to me, she tries to copy my behaviour, she puts on perfume when she knows I'm around, and she wears quite... "complimentary" office-wear. I messaged her once to ask her if she'd like to catch up over coffee, but I downplayed it to merely work when I next saw her, because I thought it might have been inappropriate.
What do you think?
I know workplace relationships are a booby-trapped minefield of epic proportions, but I don't know any alternative places to meet people irl right now.
As a guy I'm hopeless at dating, I've come up dry so far in life - not that others haven't shown interest, but with all the media I've seen that says men are toxic to ask women out I feel like I can't by society.
