Search Results: tell him i am not interested

Does he like me or not, maybe interested I don't know?

so, i’ve had a crush on this guy for a while. (currently in middle school by the way) in the beginning of the school year, we didn’t talk, but i started talking to him first (bc my other friend is also friends w him so i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why has this guy at work all of sudden started avoiding me?

So I have a guy at my new job who is super outgoing and talks to everyone and is a jokester and is really funny. He’s about five years older than me. On my first day he introduced himself to me and joined in my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he a psycho?

Obsessive? I am a sex worker and obviously some regulars have my number. This fellow has been abusing that in order to flirt with me. Sending me husband like texts - „I’m leaving the city now“, „just cooked chicken“ He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How can I love someone again who wasn’t interested in me before?

So first of all. I used to really love someone and I told her multiple times. But she shut me down all those times saying she actually only likes me as a friend. I had to learn to live with that reality and eventually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do you recover when people go along with someone being abused in a relationship?

So I was in a relationship 2 years ago where people knew that my ex girlfriend was hitting me, constantly calling me horrible names such as bitch, stupid motherfucker, nuisance. Our mutual friends didn’t seem to her, her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he now going out of his way to avoid me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he more then a guy friend?

How do you know if a guys super interested in you, we've been friends for a few months now and met through work. He mentioned that he's super comfortable with me and love language is to bully me. Not sure if that's an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is my fiancé looking at girls on insta or trying not to?

So I looked through his instagram last night (sorry don’t judge me please) not for any particular reason than to check it out. He doesn’t follow any naked girls or anything inappropriate and says he doesn’t desire to. And...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Do you ever get hung up on someone you nearly dated?

I met this girl not too long ago flirted a bunch was at first going to be a hookup but I expressed an interest in taking her out for a date, she agreed and it warmed up to a point she came round to mine told me she had a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

A girl im seeing said im not a priority and it makes me feel like im an afterthought. what should I do?

She and I matched on Tinder last month and our first date was amazing. Conversation just flowed naturally. A week later was our second date where things began to go downhill. I thought it was time to ask deeper question...

Silver89

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

Why is it so difficult for old-souls to find friends and true love?

I have a dilemma. I’m not socially awkward, but my conversations take a different path than most people my age. What starts as casual small talk naturally turns into deep discussions about ambitions, family expectations,...

A_Josh

Xper 3 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Is he courting me?

I recently unblocked a man’s number and Facebook account, after he sent me a friend request on a dating app that we both use. I told him I’d blocked him because I’d found some of his erratic behaviour made me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What are some signs that a girl is open to you shooting your shot or wants you to shoot your shot with her?

So I’ve been interested in this particular girl for a while she is what some would say out of my league. She has a large online following pretty girl too, I have done a few things to get her attention and noticed a...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Education & Career

How can I tell if it’s just a courtesy interview or they’re taking me seriously as a candidate?

I reached out to my friend who runs a business (she’s CEO) and I asked if there are open positions and I sent her my resume. She said the existing job posting on the website is for someone super specialized in that area...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Back with the cop oh here we go again?

Today was a interesting because he had a smiled and had eye contact with me and said what’s up but I couldn’t tell if it was flirty or friendly because he held eye with me? Thoughts please!

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What should I do?

I briefly talked with a guy over a dating app. He talked with me a lot, then when I gave him my number he at first that we wasn't interested in me because I wasn't a Christain and when I corrected him and told him I was...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Guys, what am I dealing with? What could this guy want?

I am getting mixed signals from my guy best friend for the last year. We have never had sex but sleep next to each other several days a week. When he is having a bad day or upset or emotional, he comes to me, even if in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do men keep approaching women that aren't interested in dating?

What do these men think they'll accomplish? I lost interest in dating a decade ago and completely gave up on it. Yet , I have men keep pursuing me after I told them no.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is this a good plan?

My bestie has told me that she likes a guy from aspie group. The good looking, life of the party guy. I like another guy that goes there. The quiet intellectual guy. I had an idea; that we would invite them both to my...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

How can you tell if a guy is shy or just not interested?

I work in the same office building as this guy who appears to be about my age. We don’t work for the same company but I’ve seen him around a lot the past few months. We’ve never spoken. I finally made eye contact with him...

Anonymous

(30-35)