Ok I guess like all women you assume men can read your mind. Makes sense. Our fault for not knowing you don’t want to date. We should have read your mind. Let me apologize for all men who didn’t read your mind lol
It's not about that even when I tell a man no they come back asking again weeks or months later.. constant rejection
Almost like they enjoy being rejected or think I'll change my mind.
Maybe they do. Maybe they like a challenge. Maybe they’re have mental issues.
I'm not a challenge when I reject men move on
This is why most women avoid men in public because most can't handle rejection.
The same can be said for women.
I wish American men the best , but no I'm not interested in dating anymore lost that interest a decade ago - sexism and misogyny in America is bad. Plus I love my freedom and peace of mind without the stress of dating. There's no need for me to date a man I don't want marriage or children and most relationships bring unnecessary stress. I travel and make money..
So what’s misogyny in America?
Men voting against women's rights, men treating women like objects, men voting for Donald Trump, men who are looking for mommy replacements, men who use weaponized incompetence against women, men who cheat, men who ghost women, men who abuse women , and men who give women STDs willingly. Dating you men is a liability and risk that doesn't account for the women who are unalived in MARRIAGES, raped, and SA
Men who lack emotional intelligence too...
I don't have to worry about STDs, unwanted pregnancies, abuse, or cheating not dealing with you men
What rights did men vote against? Voting for Donald Trump does not make someone a misogynist. Trust me a lot of women are just as bad as the men these days. I know more women who voted for Trump than they did for Kamala. What does that make them? Especially a lot of the women I work for. A lot of women from the Philippines voted for him. I know cause the nursing profession is dominated by a lot of Philippine nurses. I work in medical. A lot of women here treat men like ATMs, seeing what they can get out of them that’s why a number of men have resorted to going overseas to find someone. Many of them aren’t coming back either. Getting married to an American woman is a liability as well. The system favors women here. So it’s not just the men.
79% of men voted against women's rights in this country hence Project 2025. If I were dating I wouldn't date a man who voted and supports Trump
I don't associate with anyone who voted for Trump
When I go out with my girlfriends ( I'm not gay ) we have a good time and come home. I don't have to be stalked or followed
Noone is dating for love just useless casual sex
So you’re from the United States?
Yes and saw the MISGONY and sexism plus mental issues with men a decade ago
So you didn’t see the same in women? I sure as hell did when I worked in the women’s prison for about 8 years well as the state mental hospital. Maybe what you call misogyny is just men being honest w women like women wanted. But in reality they can’t handle the truth so they call it misogyny. I don’t know of any men that I associate w that are scum bags. I, including two of my 3 brothers had families, only for the women to cheat on us. Then they tried coming back after they realized no one wanted them. My third brother, he’s not that best but I can admit that about being biased. He’s had some issues but he’s worked through them. Now he has his 3 little girls while their mom is living w some dude in the city. It took me a long time to find someone, who I have been w now for 17 years. So no it’s not just the men.
I know there's women who carry internalized MISGONY.. I don't date women and I deal with women who enable mens toxic behavior
I don't deal with toxic be behavior period. I left the dating market in 2014 and nothing good has changed since being gone. I come back to see hook up culture took over with modern dating
I don't have time to weed through men anymore to figure out whose sane and whose not.. who actually likes/ respects women and not..
My only regret was coming out my hiding to see the genders fighting while women like me just want to be avoided
Hook up culture which is initiated by women. Because let’s face it unless the man rapes her, she’s the one who ultimately gives it up. You act as if women are innocent, like they can do no wrong. More than likely at one time you wanted a man, marriage, maybe even kids. But someone screwed tku up some where now you’re just mad at all men.
I'm not those women not only am I single I've been CELIBATE since my divorce with my ex husband. If women are sleeping with men it's not me and never will be me
So what your husband cheated on you?
Nope not mad at men just don't want any parts to what's going out here - with women losing their rights due to this election why deal with men in the states. I have considered dating men overseas like I met my ex husband overseas. If I were dating American men he would not be a Trump supporter, conservative, Republican, Red pill guy, or follow any red pill teachings from Andrew Tate, Kevin Samuels, etc.. most American men follow and supports Donald Trump
My ex husband was not emotionally mature during our marriage so I ended things
Please explain what you mean by emotionally mature? If that was the case would t you say that was your fault for not seeing that? What did he do that was so immature that it warranted you ending it. Wasn’t like he cheated on you. Sounds more like it was just about your happiness.
Can't say that he cheated , but he cheated on his current wife with me ( The first wife )
Emotionally immature not prepared for marriage and was young when we got married..
I see no benefits to getting married again or dating
Ok so that’s both of your fault. Not just his. You were both young. Not ready for marriage. I don’t even see how you could call him immature either if he cheated on his wife w you. What does that make you? I’d label that as being immature as well. At the same time I still don’t even know how you’d think he was ready for marriage if he cheated on his wife w you. How does that even make sense? Because you thought you were the one? That you were different? That makes no sense. So again I say that was on both do you, not just him.
in my opinion you were just as guilty and immature as he was. Sure you weren’t the one married but you enabled it by sleeping w him. Then for you to think he won’t cheat on me so let’s get married knowing he cheated on his wife w you. Should have been a red flag right there.
He lied to his current wife after he tried to make things work with me during our divorce process. I didn't find out he was seeing and living with someone else during our divorce
He pursued me and I was virgin when he married me... I never cheated on him and he never cheated on me until we started the divorce process and he cheated on his 2nd wife with me.
He couldn't wait to divorce to cheat and I did try to make it work due to the pressure of both of our families
The fact that you slept w him during the divorce process more than likely means you still had feelings for him. Then you found out he was messing w someone else so you probably felt like he betrayed you.
He will be and is the last man I'll ever deal with - he's grown up 4 years later after our divorce , but the damage is done for rekindling. I've gone on with my life and have gotten accustomed to my single life
He played me and his current wife she was the bigger fool to stay and I walked for the sake of our children
Ok so how did he play you? He played you in your eyes by sleeping w some other girl while you two were going through a divorce? Cause you haven’t said much about what he did other than being immature. Which isn’t playing someone. I think there’s a lot more to it. Ok if someone’s immature, the relationship may not work. But I don’t think that’s enough to turn someone off from never wanting to find someone new. He didn’t cheat on you. Which could be a reason why someone wouldn’t want to find someone else. He didn’t give you an STD, unless he did which you’re not saying. That would cause someone to be embarrassed to not want to find someone else. You haven’t given any really good reasons as to why you all of a sudden don’t want to have someone win your life other than he was immature. Not really a good reason for someone to just say fuck it I’m done w dating.
Lied trying to make it work with me while he was with someone else. He knew he was ready for marriage and tossed his entire family out of selfishness. The current wife can't give him children , just wants him for his money, and has cheated on him numerous of times while married.
Karma has no time limit
Ok but you initiated the divorce so I can see why he lied about. He wanted you back. So please explain how he was immature?
He spent more time outside the home than with his family - was into drinking.
His family being you?
What about I'm his family - he neglected our marriage
I'm glad to be free and liberated good luck to you men
Same to you
Because to many women persistence is very attractive.
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You should give one of them a chance. Who knows? You might just meet your Prince Charming.
I don't believe in love anymore
I don't have any chances to give
I rather not string men along
Okay, but just think about it. You may be pleasantly surprised by the outcome.
I'm good completely closed off
I just focus on my money and travel now
Please just consider it. I never said you have to for sure. Just think about trying again.
I did think about it and I'm never dating again I'm sorry
Dating isn't worth the headache and headache.. the stress and drama - cheating , lies, and abuse
You don't have to apologize to me for your decision. However, I think you are going to regret not giving love another chance. You need to forget what happened to you in the past and move forward with your life. Finding love will change your life for the better.
Screw love I watch people go through hell in relationships and marriages.. not signing up for that. Married and dating people turned me off constantly cheating on their partners, abuse, or drama. I'm not missing out on anything not dating..
My money has improved my life and traveling. Not being controlled by someone or worrying if they're lying or cheating
I got rid of a former friend who constantly trauma dumped about her abusive husband and I have sisters married once again constant drama. I live my life in peace without that headache..
In my years of being single more married men have approached me versus single men.
You are going to end up old and alone because you are closing yourself off to the beautiful prospects of love. Then, you are going to look back on your life and wish you had listened to the wise man giving you solid advice on GirlsAskGuys and wishing to yourself that you would have listened to him and his wisdom.
I'm not alone I have friends and family - I'm not going through the headache with you men.. I don't need to be tied to you either like marriage. For what? Are most people equipped for marriage? No
I don't need a std or a partner who cheats
A partner who abuses and full of misogyny or sexism
Goodbye! I guess stubborn people like yourself will have to learn the hard way when you die old and alone in your bed with nothing to show for your life. Love changes a person's life for the better.
Yeah if the person gives love back and does not take the other person for granted! I don't think most people even understand love or how to show it.
I have my business, career, and cat to keep me occupied.. I don't have to worry about any of those things cheating , lying, abusing, or giving me a STD..
Good Luck! I know that you will change your mind and be happily married within the next 5 years.
Nope
Just waiting on Jesus to come and stay CELIBATE my end goal
Most humans are terrible and why can't people be loyal to their partner
you don't ask, you don't get
I don't need men approaching me
Especially after I let them know the first time I'm not interested
Men should stop being thirsty and entertaining
Stop approaching women in public
When I'm grocery shopping minding my business men shouldn't be approaching me
I'm grocery shopping- not shopping for a man. I don't want to be approached by strange men in public.
See what you're doing right now?
That's why it keeps happening. You're the problem.
There is a solution though. Free and easy.
It's called STFU. If you STFU, the majority of what you're facing with cease to exist. This entire shitshow would be a non issue.
You should STFU. I think it's right for you
It's called you thirsty men should pursue women at social clubs places to meet single women.. women pumping gas, shopping for groceries, paying bills don't want to be approached by men
See what you're doing? You're being a nag and problematic for women when all you have to do is stop meeting women in public and if a woman rejects move on.
I don't like nagging men or men who think they're entitled or controlling
I do too you men think you're entitled and you're not
No woman owes you nothing you're lucky I'm even engaging with you
Why is it always about sex with you men? Get an identity and evolve - I prefer to sleep with my vibrator than you men who sleep around like a human vibrator
Which one you think I'm gonna chose? The plastic
You men are not worth laying down with unless you are a virgin and/or CELIBATE 3 years since your last relationship.. which most of you men are not 🚫 so I choose my toy...
how many times are you going to ask this?
How many times have you seen it posted and by who? Someone feels the same as me
Not my question
Lol now I know you are lying "36-45" same age range as the previous user. I know it's the same person. You asked about this 4 times now and now I can tell there are probably guys out there who wants to date you to begin with. You probably live in your Dads basement or something.
Those are not my questions sorry I'm barely on GAG these days..
I live in my house that I own maybe you live in your dad's basement
I'm not even out here in the dating market and still get approached by weird dudes who can't offer anything, but sex and proverty... most are red pill incels
Most men don't make the cut off of a decent woman..
I can tell these guys are full of MISGONY and listen to Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels
No idea, I'm not interested in dating either
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