Search Results: having a girl just be a friend

By meaningful I mean for potential marriage, having kids, etc.

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Personally I wouldn't - but then I've only been with 2 guys - because I see such people as untrustworthy, unreliable and unable to deal with life or a little bit of difficulty.

I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of them are unable to do more than minimal skills required jobs & only got lucky with better jobs than sweeping floors**.

Furthermore in my encounters, what I've heard, read, etc such people have bad personalities - immature, irresponsible, rude, ignorant, demeaning of others, etc., egotistical, short tempered, prone to childish behavior, not to mention oftentimes they're alcoholics and/or have issues with drugs - that'd make them very highly undesirable even if they didn't sleep around.

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**I've heard as example, including from family friends who taught what would become NHL players, that the average athlete and celebrity is far from being intelligent. The one who taught NHL players bluntly said they're fortunate to have been talented otherwise as they were struggling with simple secondary education. Ironically celebrity and athletes are notoriously unfaithful.

Does he not find me attractive enough to stay around or is it because he can’t be bothered with his kids

He moans about having to look after his kids and do things with them. Hed rather party etc

He says he thinks I’m very attractive and have a really good body

But he still follows people with different body types

I have smaller boobs and big bum and I’m petite. He still follows people with different types

He says he fancies me so much and he can’t stop himself with me

But then he goes out with his friends and finds girls just as good as he finds me

Which is it?