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these type of things keep happening to me.


Okay here s what happened:

i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the boss s brother.

there s a HR , really like gossiping, keeps telling me to consider dating A. I was like “ i dont know him at all” then she even started thinking about planing on a hangout/event. I casually rejected.


One time we were in a Christmas party at the office. He did sths and said something that made others thought he was defending me. Then the people started smiling at me.

but i dont think i can date people from my workplace. It might turn into nightmares… or it could be a trap so they can make fun of me.

I ignored them for months. Then they started calling me arrogant / waiting for people to chase. I was annoyed so i told them i reached out to a speed dating company. They have stopped.


RECENTLY THEY STARTED IT AGAIN. And one person sent me pic of him talking to another girl told me to make a move or else it will be too late. I was little bit sad at the beginning but now i m alright.

what would u do if u were me?

I’ve see some guys who just ignore their girlfriend when they’re crying… I understand some girls use crying as a “tactic” to get what they want so that might warrant an indifference reaction from the boyfriend but I’m specifically asking about the instances where the boyfriend is the one causing their girl to cry (e. g. after yelling at them, cheating on them, or doing anything that might’ve hurt their girlfriend which resulted in her crying). I’m also aware that some people get flustered, confused and lost on what to do when they see a person crying but in my personal experience, I rarely ever see a guy comforting their girlfriend when she’s crying…