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My sister has always been the prettier sibling, she has blonde hair, implants, etc. Recently, I lost 30 lbs and have been looking better than I ever did before.

Couple steps back, my mom posted a national daughters day appreciation post and chose to use an old (uglier) photo of me rather than a recent beautiful updated photo- even tho she was sent the recent photo a few minutes before she made the post. I confided in my sister of how much this bothered me but she told me that she thought I looked fine. I thought this was hypocritical because the photo of her on the post was photoshopped to the T. I personally thought it was weird how she was bothered by the smallest details in her photo but she never saw anything wrong in my old ugly untouched photo.

Back to now, I sent a video to my sister how my hair was naturally curling, she seemed happy for me. But the following night she sent an old photo of all of us and again that bothered feeling came again. I can tell she photoshopped herself but I could be wrong.. but all I’m thinking is, did she do this out of spite? Are these jealous moves or is it just in my head?

The first three photos are screenshots from the video i sent her showing my hair, and the last one is the photo she then sent me. I’m on the far right and she’s on the far left.

Im watching this show (himym) and one of the characters was surprised that his wife didn't get jealous about a female coworker he was spending time with (not cheating). Then his two friends explained that its because he’s the “reacher” in the relationship and his wife is the “settler”.

This means his wife is the best woman he can get (he “reached” for her) thats why she isn't worried about him cheating. While his wife is the “settler” obviously means she settled for him. His friends told him this, not his wife.

Do you agree that every relationship has a “reacher” and a “settler”? If so which one do you think are you in your relationship?

I personally hate my family because they are snarky little bitches, toxic, verbally and physically abusive, jealous

I wish they will hit the finish line in their lives soon for what they did to me. I’m always the nice and quiet one in my family but I can’t keep associating my life with people I can’t bear to stay in touch with, as bad as it sounds; I don’t even like any of them at all. They are the reason why i developed BPD, which nothing can heal me but it can be managed by drugs but i hate taking drugs it fucks my life so i stopped. How about you?

Thanks for reading my rant