Should I move on, or try to reach out?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing a guy for about 7 months now. About 2 weeks ago we kind of got into are first little “disagreement” because he got all jealous and started ignoring me. He has never did that before. I haven’t spoken to him since then. What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's always so weird when you get in a fight with someone you've been talking to for a while. On one hand, I'd kinda wanna reach out to make sure you guys are good. But it's also risky if he's still all mad about it.

I'd say maybe give it a few more days to let things cool down. Then try sending like a casual text, nothing too serious, see how he responds.

If he stays ignoring you or is still short, he's probably still hung up on it. Then I'd say try to move on for now. Not worth stressing over someone who won't even talk it out.

But if he seems open to chatting again, maybe try to meet up and really clear the air. Talk about what happened and set some ground rules so smaller stuff doesn't cause a big fight again.

Only you know how serious you feel about him. But jealousy issues are no fun. I'd be careful continuing things if he often ignores you when mad. At least see if he's willing to communicate better going forward before fully committing again, ya know? Keep your options open for now I say. Hope it works out!

[NewgodOmega]

I didn't read your lies which was written to make sure everyone hates the guy and show you sympathy and support you coz that's what women want but yeah move on
Liaten liaten you have moved on already we all know that it's just you want some mental brownie points that's all

[Asker]

There are no lies. Why even comment weirdo?

[NewgodOmega]

There are no lies coz you say so, women lie more than men its scientifically proven so dont Try to lie we are men we know you are lying
And it's my life you can get me banned report my post that won't actually change me, you know that right
Filthy smelly miserabl pethathic overdosing on anti depressants

[slatyb]

"... he got all jealous and started ignoring me" That's immature and controlling. What do you want? "I haven't spoken to him since" How do you feel about that? Do you miss him, or do you feel relieved? If you aren't missing him, then move on. You can do better.