Someone texted my boyfriend multiple times on instagram now, and he is sleeping at my place and I want to check his phone so bad? It's 1am here?

[Anonymous]

I am so angry already, I want to wake him up to unlock his phone and show me the messages and I know he is so tired he got up at 6 am and hardly got any sleep last night because we stayed out late. He posted our photos on instagram yesterday (I didn't ask him to), he is a really good boyfriend and he spends all his free time with me but I am still so jealous and insecure HELP.

[Anonymous]

So despite the fact you have said he is a good boyfriend and he spends heaps of time with you and you have also said he has posted your photos on IG to show the world he is in a relationship, you still don't have any trust in him and are getting angry for no reason.

Ask yourself, would he leave his phone around for you to see if he was cheating? The answer is no. If he was cheating or doing anything he shouldn't be doing, he would be hiding his phone from you

[beautyjoyfover200]

Do you know if that someone is another girl? Or maybe it’s he friends that you know of? When he wakes up from his beauty rest, ask him and let him show you the message, but don’t feel insecure about it it’s probably nothing.

[Asker]

I can't see anything except that it's on instagram

[beautyjoyfover200]

Honestly just ask him and if the story don’t make sense keep an eye out for it until you have proof I guess

[Asker]

When he woke up it was like 5 am, he asked me why are you up, I said cause someone was texting you all night, and then I asked him to open his phone and it was his mom and his brother lol 🥹😂

[spartan55]

@asker
What a surprise... like I said he should dump you. I'm sure you still believe you did nothing wrong because you have zero self awareness, but you definitely did. You damaged your relationship, all because of your insecurity and refusal to give your boyfriend any benefit of the doubt. (which it sounds like he deserved). I'd be willing to bet he tolerates shit like this from you more often than he should.

[spartan55]

He should dump you.

[Asker]

Lol ok

[spartan55]

Lol OK, yeah keep thinking it's all a big joke...