This is all my boyfriend texted me before he went to sleep. Is he bread crumbing me?

[Anonymous]

He was silent after he got off work. Then before he went to bed all he said was "good chat, good life, now good sleep." He used to say Good night my love or that he appreciates me. This is all he said last night before bed. We have dated for 6 months and only see each other on weekends. Is he being inconsiderate?

[crossdressingrihno]

Since this only happened once there's not really much to say

One day isn't enough to make an assessment on whether or not someone is leading you on or is uninterested in your relationship or whatever
With one day he could have just been really tired that day and wasn't really able to think very well on what he was saying kept it short and said something that came out wrong and didn't realize it
With one day maybe he went through a spout of depression because something happened and he said something like that and is going to regret it later
With one day it's possible he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you but that is kind of iffy because generally you don't just stop wanting to be with some one right off the bat you're generally slowly fade out of Love with them which this is kind of abrupt for that
With one day it's possible he was just in a hurry and needed to get to sleep because he had something to do in the morning or whatever that's totally a possibility and maybe he was accidentally inconsiderate because he just didn't have the time to think about doing the quote unquote ritual

[DWornock]

That is the problem with women. They expect guys to keep trying to win them. However, winning a girl requires a lot of time, effort, and money. After winning a girl, guys want to be able to relax and be confortable. If a girl expects more than that, she is not his time and trouble.

[Kristy7di88ddd]

Yes. It sounds like he is breadcrumbing you. It sounds like he isn't as invested or interested in the relationship as you are. This is a big RED FLAG because at 6-months this SHOULD be the lust/infatuation/honeymoon phase. He sounds like a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

Does he normally go to bed at 8:30 PM? He could just be tired from work and is having an off day, I think he's not being inconsiderate bc he's still taking the time to text you :)

[Asker]

He tells me he is usually tired after work. He wakes up at 5 am to do homework before going to work

[Opinion Owner]

Okay but I don't see any problems here. He texted you good night and you responded good night - end of conversation, how is that bread crumbing? lol

[Asker]

He used to text me about little details or fill me in on what he did before he says good night. Now he just says good night

[Flower7]

It doesn’t look like he’s putting in any less effort than you are. Neither one of you said very much or seemed very engaged in the conversation.

[boggboss]

wouldn't read much into it if it's bothering u ask him about it

[Asker]

He just went to bed and ignored me after I said good night. Do guys do that in relationships?

[boggboss]

How did he ignore u he said night first

[Asker]

He used to text me before he says good night. Now he just says good night

[boggboss]

Again if u have a issue with it ask him

[Asker]

Would you do the same thing if u had a girlfriend

[boggboss]

What just say goodnight?

[Asker]

Yes and not text her much after work?

[boggboss]

I text my girl a bit after work

[Asker]

Do you call her after work too?

[boggboss]

Sometimes no always

[Anonymous]

This is part of why I don't have a girlfriend. i got no time for any of that nonsense. Maybe he's the same but just not honest enough with himself to realize it.

[IsoUser]

I'm not up on the British Slang for things an OMG, BLESS ME I SURELY WILL BE FULLY INFORMED AND VACCINATED AGAINST LMFAO

[Anonymous]

Why do think it's bread crumbing?

[Asker]

He used to text me before he says good night. Now he just says good night

[Asker]

He used to fill me in on how his night went

[Opinion Owner]

If it keeps happening ask him or look for any other reason or changes. I feel that too sometimes, I text someone and then are waiting for a reply.