boyfriend and I been together for three years, he lets me see his phone whenever I ask or if I reach for it when he’s around he won’t react crazy. Does he like it? No but he lets me to help ease my anxiety for the last three years. No infidelity on either parties but I’ve had trust issues my whole life. At night I’ve gone through his phone while he slept, he knows it because I've done it a couple times but it upsets him and he always tells me not to do that, his words were “ why do you have to wake up in the middle of the night and deep dive in my phone” my concern is he is hiding something and only wants me to go through his phone when he’s present to stop it. What do you guys think?
Boyfriend gets mad that I go through his phone while he sleeps?
