My boyfriend got mad because he thought I went through his phone?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend got mad because he thought I went through his phone we got in a argument hours later as he was leaving out of our house he was telling me he was leaving i ignored him and finally replied and said have fun thot he got mad and threw my food in my face and threw my side table on the floor is this a sign he might become abusive later on down the line? When he got back home he said he only did that because I made him mad accusing him of talking to other females when he’s not

[MaKa_newbie]

I am not proud but I went through my boyfriends phone because I knew he was hiding something from me. Anyway, when I confronted him, he also got really angry... like REALLY angry. But never, and I mean NEVER in these couple of years did he ever do anything like that to me. And he has anger issues. So yeah, RUN.

[random_girl95]

It's probable yes that he might. Be careful with him and talk this out. Consider also the following: would he be behaving in this way is he didn't have something to hide?

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, that is a warning sign for a POTENTIAL problem. WHy did you make the accusation? Should that be a warning sign for him?

[slatyb]

He threw food on your face? Deal-breaker. "You made him mad" is not an excuse for abuse. Get out.

[genericname85]

what do you mean "is this a sign he might become abusive later down the line"? XD that is clearly already abusive. like what is "throwingn food in peoples face"? is that not abusive to you?

[UniquelyBasic]

What do you mean "get abusive later" he's abusive now.

[tzdc21]

You both need couples therapy