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2 days ago i went on a date with a guy. He lives in another state it got late he missed the last train home and didn't have a ride. He said before the date that he is looking for a serious relationship only. So he said if he will like me during the date he will kiss me on the forehead that's how i'll know he is serious about me. He kissed me on the forehead about 3 hours into the date and i invited him to stay at my place because he could'nt go home. We didn't have seggs although we kissed and cuddled during his stay. We kept texting after the date but now he doesn't seem as enthusiastic in his texts as he was before. Something is off like we have nothing to talk about although everything was perfect before and on the date. It's kinda awkward. He used to spend all his time talking to me, he talks a lot to me still but its not the same as before.

Am i just overthinking this or did i get lovebombed?

So my boyfriend used to work with this female co worker and he sometimes talk about her and activities she has done with her boyfriend. There's been a couple times where we would do things that she has done with her boyfriend and 1\2 we have done worked out. So anything she kind of does or says it seems like he put her on a pedal stool. Also before she switched departments my boyfriend seemed to have liked these healthy snacks I would make and then all of a sudden he would keep asking for the healthy snacks for his "coworkers" every other week because he has told me she loved them as well as other coworkers. When she switched departments he all of a sudden stopped asking for the healthy snacks for him to bring into work.

He has also mentioned briefly one time considering switching departments where she is when talking about his career or ideas she has with her career. He said they are really good friends and he has had no feelings towards each other/ nothing has happened between them. Whenever I mentioned a double date or meeting her he seems hesitant to set something up with her because she lives a bit far but still manageable to meet halfway.

Am I overthinking this or do you think there's something there either between them/ him having feelings?