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3 mo

NSFW: Sexting: was this a lame interaction considering the context?

I’m (32F) overthinking perhaps but basically I’m seeing this guy (34M) very casually (but have known him for 10 years - we’ve had an on and off thing - so there is familiarity there). I’m trying to hang out with him a little more often (once every couple of weeks) and maybe start to explore a little more with him.

Historically we have sexted a lot and usually I’m/we’re pretty creative. Our sex life is not tame lol and our sexts usually reflect that. But anyways we were talking on Friday where he ended up sort of apologising for not seeing me much and that he’d been keeping a low profile but he’d tell me more about why in person. I liked the message as I was busy at the time, and only responded to him 24hrs later. Basically saying the ball was in his court while being cute about it, and reminding him my birthday was coming up

ME: Sorry meant to reply properly babe. I'II let you decide when works to meet 😘Tho I'm away next weekend and then in (another country) for a few days haha. Whenever it is... I def get birthday privileges x

HIM: Oh what privileges are we talking

ME: Oooff well I have plenty of ideas. Low-key little dinner/drinks... followed by some seriously naughty sex. Ending the night bent over for you.. so you can fill me up x

Basically I know this is a stupid question - but was I thoroughly uncreative in my sext? My response reads like birthday privileges = a very standard sexual interaction between us, lol. As opposed to something more creative but a) I was easing into it and b) it was 10.30pm and I was feeling under the weather so did not have much creative capacity. As it was so late I assume he was out and hasn’t read it yet because of that.

NSFW: Sexting: was this a lame interaction considering the context?
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